shysnail
Well-Known Member
I hope this is the right section, as it's a housing situation rather than an employment one.
I'm in the super lucky position where I could potentially buy a house or an apartment with my partner. The issue is that I am really sensitive to noise from neighbours. I don't know if this is a sensory processing issue (I have some other issues in this regard, but I don't really struggle with it.), or if I've just had bad experiences that have made me hyper aware and hyper anxious.
Right now, I live in my partner's mum's house. The neighbours are pretty noisy. Not LOUD most of the time, but you can almost always hear them, whether it's their talking, laughing, playing music. Occasionally they have parties, and I have a base level of anxiety every day that they will have a party that night.
I would say this anxiety really lowers my life quality. I've been through periods with it where I couldn't work (I work from home, so no escape from the noise) and just generally have been miserable, although I had a better period after I went to the doctor and was prescribed some anti-anxiety meds. Right now, though, I'm back having a hard time (I'm still on the meds, so not sure what has changed).
My issue is, although I can buy a house/apartment, I can't afford anything detached and I can't afford particularly nice areas. I'm really scared to spend a ton of money, only to be miserable when the neighbours are noisy again!
So although financially it makes the most sense to buy a property, I'm considering other options like living in a van. I don't think this is a "smart" move, but the idea of being able to drive away from people and sounds whenever I want is really appealing.
Sorry this has been really long. I'm just curious if other people have had issues with noise as it relates to where they live/just any general input or comments. I guess I'd just like to hear from outsiders also on the spectrum who might be able to see where I'm coming from (or tell me I'm being ridiculous, I guess. Although I'd prefer not that!).
I'm in the super lucky position where I could potentially buy a house or an apartment with my partner. The issue is that I am really sensitive to noise from neighbours. I don't know if this is a sensory processing issue (I have some other issues in this regard, but I don't really struggle with it.), or if I've just had bad experiences that have made me hyper aware and hyper anxious.
Right now, I live in my partner's mum's house. The neighbours are pretty noisy. Not LOUD most of the time, but you can almost always hear them, whether it's their talking, laughing, playing music. Occasionally they have parties, and I have a base level of anxiety every day that they will have a party that night.
I would say this anxiety really lowers my life quality. I've been through periods with it where I couldn't work (I work from home, so no escape from the noise) and just generally have been miserable, although I had a better period after I went to the doctor and was prescribed some anti-anxiety meds. Right now, though, I'm back having a hard time (I'm still on the meds, so not sure what has changed).
My issue is, although I can buy a house/apartment, I can't afford anything detached and I can't afford particularly nice areas. I'm really scared to spend a ton of money, only to be miserable when the neighbours are noisy again!
So although financially it makes the most sense to buy a property, I'm considering other options like living in a van. I don't think this is a "smart" move, but the idea of being able to drive away from people and sounds whenever I want is really appealing.
Sorry this has been really long. I'm just curious if other people have had issues with noise as it relates to where they live/just any general input or comments. I guess I'd just like to hear from outsiders also on the spectrum who might be able to see where I'm coming from (or tell me I'm being ridiculous, I guess. Although I'd prefer not that!).