So, I discussed this last Summer. The link to the thread is below.
The dynamics has continued with the three friends ignoring me (one smiles/says hello) throughout this year.
Although I hadn’t seen the three in a few months. What I don’t get is the one gal whom stopped speaking to me. She still ignores me. No communication at all.
This I find odd. Extremely odd.
If I can add:
- Other group members have said that the “three” appear cliquey.
- They do not go anywhere with anyone else in the group.
- They do not talk too much to anyone else in the group.
- They go everywhere together. If one goes somewhere, they all go, I.e toilets, outside. For ex, today we where at a venue, one had an appointment so the other two left with her despite not going to the appointment and living in different towns.
To me this is all quite immature, and somewhat odd. I can’t get my head around their behaviour, why they don’t talk to anyone else at the group, why they rigidly stick to one another.
Why do they even bother going to the group if they’re not going to talk to anyone?
I’m sorry but this is odd. I’ve seen cliques but never anything this severe where the members move lock and step together and do not talk to anyone.
Anyone have any experience with this? Would Aspergers heighten the Cliquey nature of the group?
Person has suddenly gone from Friendly to cold/Avoiding me. I can’t cope
The dynamics has continued with the three friends ignoring me (one smiles/says hello) throughout this year.
Although I hadn’t seen the three in a few months. What I don’t get is the one gal whom stopped speaking to me. She still ignores me. No communication at all.
This I find odd. Extremely odd.
If I can add:
- Other group members have said that the “three” appear cliquey.
- They do not go anywhere with anyone else in the group.
- They do not talk too much to anyone else in the group.
- They go everywhere together. If one goes somewhere, they all go, I.e toilets, outside. For ex, today we where at a venue, one had an appointment so the other two left with her despite not going to the appointment and living in different towns.
To me this is all quite immature, and somewhat odd. I can’t get my head around their behaviour, why they don’t talk to anyone else at the group, why they rigidly stick to one another.
Why do they even bother going to the group if they’re not going to talk to anyone?
I’m sorry but this is odd. I’ve seen cliques but never anything this severe where the members move lock and step together and do not talk to anyone.
Anyone have any experience with this? Would Aspergers heighten the Cliquey nature of the group?
Person has suddenly gone from Friendly to cold/Avoiding me. I can’t cope
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