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What can I as a social anxious and reserved Aspie male do about accusatory women?

I'm not sure where you live Frostee, but in America today women can pretty much do whatever they feel & ruin the life of any male they want, for any reason what so ever with little to no consequence or risk on their part.

Avoiding / running away from such confrontations as I do: The anarchist in me likes to snicker & laugh at the thought of what happens to the entitled when the social structure protecting these people finally reaches absurdity and collapses....... I giggle when I think about what happened to the Senators after the fall of Rome, to the aristocracy during the french revolution, and what will happen to people like this when the system protecting & encouraging such behavior finally disappears.
 
So, this evening I was driving my car. I pulled into a Petrol station to get food, I drive out of the Forecourt and I knock my car slightly on the pump (it was an awkward space).

I turn left and drive up a suburban road. I pull over at a lay-by. A teenage girl cycles past as I am pulling in and then stops.

I get out to check my car, and see her. She immediately says “why did you stop your car beside me what are you doing?”. I said “wth are you going on about, why are even you talking to me, I don’t know you?”. I then got in the car and stormed out of there. I was feeling humiliated and mortified so I didn’t want to stick around, or allow the situation to escalate any further.

I don’t know what she was doing but I think she was trying to say that I was going to do something to her.

What can I, as a shy Aspie male (and average attraction wise) do about these types of women who try to say that I am a creep or acting sketchy? This evening could’ve escalated into something serious. I am very worried that she has taken a photo of me or my number plate and is going to go to the police.
Here's my suggestion. Just ignore her and turn around. Focus back on your car like she's not even there. Then she has no reason to accuse you or doing anything to her. Don't even answer her. Just focus on what you were doing and then drive off once you're done. That way, she has no reason to day anything else, and you get home without conflict.
 

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