What advice would you give your 30 year old self?

[Elemental]

Some of the most productive choices I ever made were aged thirty: return to education, cull areas of toxicity from life, relocate & Head for the Hills...This was 5 years before I got diagnosed / assessed but the need for absorbing occupations, an awareness of potential vulnerability & a desire for a quieter environment were important to me. Now, I would advise: keep closer links with family.

 

[On the Inside]

Some of the most productive choices I ever made were aged thirty: return to education, cull areas of toxicity from life, relocate & Head for the Hills...This was 5 years before I got diagnosed / assessed but the need for absorbing occupations, an awareness of potential vulnerability & a desire for a quieter environment were important to me. Now, I would advise: keep closer links with family.

What you were able to do is more precisely what I would say to 30 year old me. Along with keeping closer links to family.

Good for you.

 

[Vinca]

You will be able to live without him (my ex), and it will be the best thing for you. Research Aspergers, it will explain alot.

 

[Progster]

You have Asperger's. Go and research it, and then get a diagnosis.