As Omega knows, I do think so.
This girl was really pissing me off. I'm not like I am now and I used to get extremely depressed when I broke up with boyfriends, and she wouldn't let me forget he broke up with me. A lot of this was non-verbal... it wasn't what she said, it was how she said it... I'm not amazing at picking up non-verbal cues, but I can pick up obvious ones. When ever she passed me in the hallway she'd ask me, 'Are you still grieving Emma, grieving, grieving? That your bastard boyfriend broke up with you? Huh? Huh?' and it just drove me crazy, and I was having a hard enough time, etc. etc. basically I think what I did was right. I basically bashed her head into the dinner table 3 times... She left me alone.
Then there was another time where I got in this fight with this girl in the PE changing rooms. She'd always say I was a *****, call me ginge, tell me to **** off while passing me in the corridor, etc. so I basically kicked her in the changing rooms after she said something to a friend of mine, and she's really aggressive and has anger-management problems(like, she has a diagnosis sort of thing) and she bashed MY head into the wall, LOOOL. I just find it ironic because she didn't know.
There was a third thing but I've actually forgotten what it was. I know I did something because someone asked me if I had ever hurt someone and there was three things. But I've forgot about the third.
I was close this one time with my ex's ex(long story but we've always hated each other). I actually ran up to her with my fist in the air, and then decided I didn't want to and walked away. She slapped one of my best friends, and she'd been a total ***** to me, and then she said it was my fault. It just pissed me off. We're not exactly friends now but we don't hate each other anymore. She also added me as a friend on Facebook and we sometimes talk over that so yeah.
Trust me, any normal person who had to put up with the crap I get on a daily basis would be a serial killer or w.e. I'm actually extremely tolerant, but there's a point when I'll strike
The reason I don't just choose violence straight away is because it doesn't damage my reputation(and make people hate me, and in the end of the day I can't beat up everyone), I do feel guilt for hurting people I don't hate that much(I don't when I feel I'm right though), etc.
So yes, I do think violence gains you respect. But I know that it's not the right respect. Two out of the three were just because they were scared of me. Not because they thought I was a nice person who didn't deserve what they were doing.
EMZ=](it seems really stupid to put a happy face emoticon at the end of this post but w.e, LOL)