I've been trying to set a schedule for myself and have been searching for information about difficulties that people with Asperger's might have while trying to follow a schedule. I have read several times before about some people advising (let's say, to parents of children on the spectrum) to avoid time frames if they become to obsessed with on-time task completion. That children might have a meltdown if something unexpected happens or if they can't complete a task on time. But if we think about real life situation, let's say at school or at work, lots of people have to deal with time frames. If your boss asks you to complete an assignment by June 1st, in some companies an employee could be given a break but, I believe, that in most companies nobody's going to wait for you. And eventually, if you don't complete your assignments within the given time frames, you might be fired. I think if we want to have access to more opportunities in life we have to be able to adjust as much as we can, no matter how difficult it is. Like in this case. It doesn't mean that we have to change who we are but we can't expect everybody else to accommodate us all the time.
I have a huge issue with time frames. Unfortunately I haven't learned how to stay on track and how to deal with anxiety caused by interruptions. I think I would benefit more from learning how to follow a schedule and at the same time how to deal with the anxiety than from not learning it in order to avoid anxiety.
So far I'm using mindfulness method to deal with interruptions. I accept what's happened, acknowledge all the feeling arising, then evaluate the situation and make my decision. But I haven't done it yet with time frames....
Anyway can anyone relate to this? Does anyone have a problem schedules or completing tasks on time? Are there any strategies that you use?
I have a huge issue with time frames. Unfortunately I haven't learned how to stay on track and how to deal with anxiety caused by interruptions. I think I would benefit more from learning how to follow a schedule and at the same time how to deal with the anxiety than from not learning it in order to avoid anxiety.
So far I'm using mindfulness method to deal with interruptions. I accept what's happened, acknowledge all the feeling arising, then evaluate the situation and make my decision. But I haven't done it yet with time frames....
Anyway can anyone relate to this? Does anyone have a problem schedules or completing tasks on time? Are there any strategies that you use?