The Love & Dating thread.

[thejuice]

Thank you, @Kalinychta . The saddest thing is recognizing the inability to pick up social signals. When I look back, I see that through my confusions I sometimes closed off connection. Once in HS, on a Saturday a girl called me to ask questions about a lesson. Instead of picking up my book to go to her house and study together, I rattled off the answers. I now feel bad about that. Had I done the nice thing and connected I may have had the confidence to ask her out and go to the prom with a nice girl.

I talked to my female therapist about being scared of a friendship sliding into a long term relationship because I hadnt 'played the field' so to speak and she answered that theres barely a man around who doesnt regret not having more sex in his youth haha. Its why were afraid of commitment!

 

[thejuice]

I will hate and resent this quote and statement until the day I die or until my last breath and that is that there is someone for everyone and I'm sure Tony Ramirez would agree with that as well I don't get why Society came up with that statement or quote in the first place

yes thats definitely not true. There are genetic losers in the dating game and ones attitude has absolutely nothing to do with that.

 

[Steelbookcollector217]

yes thats definitely not true. There are genetic losers in the dating game and ones attitude has absolutely nothing to do with that.

Absolutely, I always hated and resented courtship and I know I will until the day I die until my last breath but I know that hating the way courtship Works would be just like hating that we have earthquakes and hurricanes

 

[thejuice]

Yeah exactly and resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die

 

[Shaped01]

What’s something you like about your partner? I’m glad he gives me things to do, a mission. I like feeling like I have things to accomplish. I like to try to please him.

 

[Rodafina]

I’m glad he gives me things to do, a mission.

Could you give an example of things he gives you to do?

 

[Glennwood Road Ent 21]

25 year old young Christian man from Latin America and The Caribbean Region who is diagnosed with autism here

Where do I find any girlfriend who is diagnosed with autism?

Can autistic girl wear leather pants for autism spectrum date with their autistic boyfriends?

 

[Glennwood Road Ent 21]

Can autistic girls get Topless in leather pants showing their breasts for autism spectrum date?​

 

[Raggamuffin]

Oddly specific question.

People can do what they choose. Asking if autistic girls in general would do this is a little nonsensical. Every person is an individual.

If you have some sort of fantasy, then discuss it with the person you're dating.

Ed

 

[Glennwood Road Ent 21]

Asking if autistic girls in general would do this is a little nonsensical.

What nonsensical means to you?

 

[Raggamuffin]

It's like asking would British women do this.
Or Greek women.

Every single woman with Autism is unique. To ask if they'd get topless in leather pants on a date makes little sense. Considering they're all individuals, asking if they collectively would fulfill your fantasy is bizarre.

Ed