I am finished University now.
I have successfully got on to a Summer Internship. The Internship can be done at the University or remotely.
I have not booked accomodation yet and am swaying back and forth between staying or coming home and getting a car. I have to confirm my apartment this week.
My initial plan was to stay in my university town for one month - but following my exam and having to come home out of boredom and loneliness, perhaps that is a bad idea?
I only have one acquaintance there who I see once a week. All support and clubs would be ending. So the setup would be me living alone, not seeing anyone and going in and out of work.
The University is very quiet during summer.
I am really struggling to make this decision. My main thing keeping me from going home, is the idea of being needed/looking bad and possibly feeling too much tension with my parents/sister.
There is also the worry there that I might not get a job and be stuck in my family home for a few months.. so perhaps this is my last chance to live independently for a while?
I was thinking of spending the weekends in London to spice the boredom up. (I don’t really like my University town.. it is quite insular and backward.)
Main concern at home, is lack of mobility and family tension. But then very, very isolated at University with little going on.
But ultimately I have no idea what to do. And I need help! Feeling forced into making this decision.
Stomach says home but don’t want to restrict myself. Want to be able to get away from family tension.
What would you do?
I have successfully got on to a Summer Internship. The Internship can be done at the University or remotely.
I have not booked accomodation yet and am swaying back and forth between staying or coming home and getting a car. I have to confirm my apartment this week.
My initial plan was to stay in my university town for one month - but following my exam and having to come home out of boredom and loneliness, perhaps that is a bad idea?
I only have one acquaintance there who I see once a week. All support and clubs would be ending. So the setup would be me living alone, not seeing anyone and going in and out of work.
The University is very quiet during summer.
I am really struggling to make this decision. My main thing keeping me from going home, is the idea of being needed/looking bad and possibly feeling too much tension with my parents/sister.
There is also the worry there that I might not get a job and be stuck in my family home for a few months.. so perhaps this is my last chance to live independently for a while?
I was thinking of spending the weekends in London to spice the boredom up. (I don’t really like my University town.. it is quite insular and backward.)
Main concern at home, is lack of mobility and family tension. But then very, very isolated at University with little going on.
But ultimately I have no idea what to do. And I need help! Feeling forced into making this decision.
Stomach says home but don’t want to restrict myself. Want to be able to get away from family tension.
What would you do?