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high functioning
I have a very hard time meeting and chatting with people. I must have a very strange vibe. My 13 year old daughter is pretty and popular and a cheerleader. She makes friends at school easy. All of her friends, their parents will always say no to spending the night at my house or even hanging out with my daughter. I do not tell my daughter why the parents say no all the time. They say no all the time because they feel uneasy around me. Every time there is some event I try to go up and talk to them but my vibe is so off they feel uneasy around me so now they will not let their kids hang with my daughter. My daughter does not get it. I do. I will try to get to know the mothers' but I guess I am getting too close, too loud, asking questions too soon, trying to make some kind of connection. I see them not wanting to try to engage with me. I am overbearing. I have tried plan A, B and C and just cannot find a personality that women like to engage with. I try to even be soft spoken and slow talking but it is hard to be someone you are not for long. Anyway, my daughter does not understand why everyone always says no to her on hanging out. I know exactly why. When I run into the mothers' in the grocery store it takes me off guard and I do not real quick get into "social mode". I will have my stone face on and no personality or swagger on and have nothing to say because I am not prepared. They just do not get the right feeling about me but they cannot figure out what it is. Well I am sure not going to tell them and I am so so tired of trying I don't give a crap anymore.
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