Situation In having girls as friends who have boyfreinds

[NothingToSeeHere]

This has been my experience, my little brothers experience, my dads experience etc etc. Maybe it's just this generation or something?

More likely it's either bad luck or a self-fulfilling prophecy. I've never seen anyone behave like that, other than on TV.

 

[Bolletje]

@ftfipps and @Hdphn33 Just out of curiosity, where are you from? Because I literally don’t know any women that act like this, nor have I ever acted this way. What you describe is, in my opinion, mostly what women on trashy reality TV act like, hardly real life people, unless very immature. Do you hang out with immature (or trashy) women?

I’m a woman, and I am perfectly capable of sustaining a platonic relationship with others. If I have a fight with my boyfriend, I talk it out, I don’t manipulate and plot revenge. I don’t jump my friends either. If I would become incredibly attracted to a friend while in a relationship, I would create some distance between me and that person. Friends are for hanging out with and talking to, not for humping.

 

[Theta.G]

@ftfipps and @Hdphn33 Just out of curiosity, where are you from? Because I literally don’t know any women that act like this, nor have I ever acted this way. What you describe is, in my opinion, mostly what women on trashy reality TV act like, hardly real life people, unless very immature. Do you hang out with immature (or trashy) women?

I’m a woman, and I am perfectly capable of sustaining a platonic relationship with others. If I have a fight with my boyfriend, I talk it out, I don’t manipulate and plot revenge. I don’t jump my friends either. If I would become incredibly attracted to a friend while in a relationship, I would create some distance between me and that person. Friends are for hanging out with and talking to, not for humping.

You seriously don't? Not a single one? If that's actually true, I'm packing up my bags and moving to your city. LOL
So is that a left or a right at heaven road?

I won't disclose where i am from but i can tell you it's a boom town. Lots of drugs and gangs. And women who chase both. Many of them aren't trashy. In fact it doesn't fit any particular type of personality. Just the way it is for most, here.
Just the consciousness of this city i guess. Lived on the otherside of the country for a while where the standard of living was higher and this problem wasn't as pervasive. There was some really great women. Good looking but also had personality and interesting hobbies. It's sort of like Europe... Where aesthetically beautiful people are more normalized it's not held such a high regard. But here, i do know many who invest into their looks as if it's the best and important thing ever, with nothing else needed. So gross.

Anyway good on ya for having a backbone

 

[ftfipps]

My first girlfriend at age 13 told me how her and her girlfriend went down on college guys and much, much more. She was 13 also. The girl I lost my virginity to was cheating on her new boyfriend with me. I didn't know she had a boyfriend. My second relationship, the girl was cheating on her then boyfriend when we first hooked up. Cheated on me the entire time we dated and lied about it. The entire time. I dated a woman one time who had kids. After we broke up and we were just FWB, she had a guy friend that was making inappropriate advances on her 15 year old daughter. She didn't call the police...she didn't yell at him...she had sex with him and sent him on his way. So jah, you can understand why I have trouble trusting women

 

[Bolletje]

@Hdphn33 I’d say make a move to Europe then

 

[Fridgemagnetman]

@Hdphn33 I’d say make a move to Europe then

But you're in europe..

 

[Theta.G]

But you're in europe..

That explains it

Once i get my life together will seriously consider it.

 

[Bolletje]

But you're in europe..

I didn’t say there were no downsides to Europe

 

[Littlemissnaughty9]

Some comments I read are just LOL as for Dillon..I am not sure how to answer. Yet if most are in relationships there should be a balance between friendships and their partners, jealousy can play a part if the other half doesnt approve how much time is spent with the friends* trust, balance, and having friends in your life is healthy and important! Good Luck

 

[Mr Allen]

About 8 years ago I worked with a girl called Rachel on the Hospital Radio, she was really attractive, funny, daft as a brush (in a funny ha ha way) etc, and we really got on.. Worst thing was I declared my "love" to her on Facebook and her jealous Boyfriend got wind of it and started getting all uppity, so I stopped.

 

[Bolletje]

If you're in the UK, you won't be in "Europe" once Brexit kicks in.

Sorry, this ain't the Politics section.

I’m not in the UK, I’m in Europe. And you’re the one bringing up Brexit and politics, not @Fridgemagnetman. Kindly play nice, Rich.