I'm currently on the NHS waiting list for an assessment, and from what I've heard online, that could mean anything from a few months to a few years. So in the meantime, if I want to concisely explain what's wrong with me, what should I say?
I suspect that I probably know way more people than your average Aspie - I got a reputation in my undergrad for being that guy who 'knows everybody', and it was kind of true since I walked in many social circles and was pretty well known within most of them. Because of that, there's a lot of people who encounter my weirdnesses/social difficulties, and I feel like I owe them some sort of explanation. It's always been extremely important to me that people see me exactly as I am - no more, no less. For that reason, it would be horrible to tell people that I have ASD only to find out later on that I actually don't. So far, the best I can do is say that I'm 'borderline'.
I'm already planning on messaging the fb group of students on my floor in halls who share my kitchen, requesting that they be careful about shutting cupboards when I'm in the room, because they often like to slam them and it's quite painful for me. But I'm not sure what reason I should give if they press for one.
I suspect that I probably know way more people than your average Aspie - I got a reputation in my undergrad for being that guy who 'knows everybody', and it was kind of true since I walked in many social circles and was pretty well known within most of them. Because of that, there's a lot of people who encounter my weirdnesses/social difficulties, and I feel like I owe them some sort of explanation. It's always been extremely important to me that people see me exactly as I am - no more, no less. For that reason, it would be horrible to tell people that I have ASD only to find out later on that I actually don't. So far, the best I can do is say that I'm 'borderline'.
I'm already planning on messaging the fb group of students on my floor in halls who share my kitchen, requesting that they be careful about shutting cupboards when I'm in the room, because they often like to slam them and it's quite painful for me. But I'm not sure what reason I should give if they press for one.