Sex and Expressing emotions

[Nikolaoskartufis]

hi. I'm new here. I'd like to ask how do you act while having sex? Do you use bad words in combination with facial expressions of passion, moan (not sure if it's the right word), make sounds sounds etc? Or you'd want to do that but you keep it all inside and stay more or less silent?

 

[mw2530]

No idea. I never have had sex and probably never will with the direction I seem to be heading.

 

[tree]

hi. I'm new here. I'd like to ask how do you act while having sex? Do you use bad words in combination with facial expressions of passion, moan (not sure if it's the right word), make sounds sounds etc? Or you'd want to do that but you keep it all inside and stay more or less silent?

Are you looking for guidance for your own activities?
Or just curious and wanting people to 'tell all'?

As a reminder, I need to point out, this forum has a PG-13 Language Level.
https://www.autismforums.com/threads/please-be-advised.20918/

 

[Nikolaoskartufis]

I read aspergers have difficulty expressing emotions and I want to see if it's true also when it comes to sex because I think I have such a problem

 

[fuðflogi]

sex,mmmm,love it, but its a mechanical thing,cant clear the mind of the ifs and what ifs,couple that with not reading people well and you have an uncomfortable situation, for me and eventually the other person, unless the other is into quick hydraulic physical experience. so yea,trouble in that department yes.

 

[Gritches]

I'm very passionate in the bedroom, but from what I've heard that isn't typical

 

[Crossbreed]

As a reminder, I need to point out, this forum has a PG-13 Language Level.

Is that true for the Adulthood sub-forum, as well? (If not, this thread should probably be moved there.)

 

[Crossbreed]

PG-13 answer: so many of our sexual responses are dictated by our autonomic nervous system. It is not too much different than our responses to acute trauma/pain (apart from the former being desirable and the latter being undesirable).

If you accidentally bump your head, do you say "Ouch!," or do you launch into a stream of obscenities? Did you need to review some NT script before you said anything? Both are triggered by the ANS. (I believe the latter is the symptom of an additional problem.)

 

[tree]

Is that true for the Adulthood sub-forum, as well? (If not, this thread should probably be moved there.)

Yes.

I should have been more clear in my statement.
When I said "this forum" I was referring to the entire forum, AC.
All thread areas.

And the link I provided actually goes to the Adulthood section.

 

[Tom]

It sounds like you are using porn as your guide. That is like using 'The Enquirer' as your news source.

 

[Judge]

Let's just say I've always thought sex was a better form to communicate with than words in comparison.

 

[Panthro]

I dont know if I make facial expressions, but I definitely like to use diry talk. The most powerful sex organ we have is our minds, so I try to stimulate the mind of my partner with dirty talk and teasing.

 

[Bolletje]

No trouble expressing myself here.