Persona , Fatherhood , Inner voice

[Lfgfgg]

Just realized I might be high functioning. Never learned how to socialize when younger ,confused about outside vs inside and how it affects me ? Spent whole life trying to avoid father just other day imagined a father voice in mind and it helped wonder if you have got any help on that. Archetypes and stuff

 

[Tom]

Not sure I understand.

You have avoided your father. But an imagined voice/comments of your father in your mind helped you in some way.

Is that right?

 

[Lfgfgg]

Have childhood trauma .Often find my self out there by myself when I imagined a father figure helping me in my head it felt like it helped me for a while but when I imagine my actual fathers voice it just irritates me . Wandering a fathers role in my mind since I didn't really know him .Plus I am confused about the whole self vs persona difference in my head my thoughts abut confused

 

[Lfgfgg]

I was traumtized out side and humilated by antisocial group they live in my head 24/7. I just never knew how to act when I was younger never had much of a positive mother or father relationship. Just wandering how mother and father impact on inner voice ,head wellbeing self/persona complete mistery to me

 

[Lfgfgg]

I don't know difference between how to act outside vs inside I can hear there voices

 

[Lfgfgg]

Went to great deal to block out fathers voice when younger wandering how and what are the affects of a fathers voice father figure . Feel like people who I was around when younger where impersonating my fathers role not sure just really confused about it

 

[Lfgfgg]

There is no father or mothers voice in my head just people who traumatised and humilated me and my own voice confused trying to make sense of it all

 

[Lfgfgg]

Always feel hunches and stuff but never quiet get there I am trapped in trauma by myself

 

[Jonn]

I was traumtized out side and humilated by antisocial group they live in my head 24/7.

So was I.
Many ppl are.

Do yourself a favour.
Stay off stimulants such as caffeine and amphetamines, and drugs like marijuana and alcohol.

 

[Jonn]

Have childhood trauma .

So have I.
Many ppl do.
I am not dismissing your pain.

 

[AspieChris]

Looks like you are using ‘speech to text’ for your posts here. There’s a few wrong words and no punctuation (sentences run into eachother with no periods to separate them).

But from what I think you’re saying:
It sounds like you have always had a void in your life from not having a connection to a father figure. Also you have misunderstood several people in your life as potentially filling that role, or trying to push their own fatherly opinions upon you.

Am I close?

 

[Lfgfgg]

Looks like you are using ‘speech to text’ for your posts here. There’s a few wrong words and no punctuation (sentences run into eachother with no periods to separate them).

But from what I think you’re saying:
It sounds like you have always had a void in your life from not having a connection to a father figure. Also you have misunderstood several people in your life as potentially filling that role, or trying to push their own fatherly opinions upon you.

Am I close?

Speech to text??

 

[AspieChris]

Speech to text??

I guess that means I’m wrong. My mistake.

 

[The Pandector]

Speech to text??

We’re having some trouble understanding what you say. Don’t worry; folks around here are very patient and will let you talk about it at your own speed.

Myself, I’m having a hard time understanding about the voices you hear. Do you mean that you are literally hearing voices that aren’t really there, or is it more like you are imagining a conversation with these people? It makes a difference in trying to understand your situation.

 

[Lfgfgg]

Mishearing things people say in other rooms my mind turn them negative.

 

[Lfgfgg]

Stuff like that