Tiger
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If you would give me your input if you have done an asessment, I would be very greatful.
So, I know that the way Autism is assessed can vary between countires but I need to talk about this and see what you guys have to say, becauce I am concerend and I don't think it was taken seriousley.
I was denied a "real assessment" but got a "pre assessment" meating where they asked me a few questions. I was supposed to fill in some papers but since I was in a pretty bad state of mental fatigue he read them aloud. And so, here are the things I reacted to afterwards.
1. The questions honestly, felt insulting. The examples he took for each question was for short:
- Would you stand up on a wedding and burp for all to hear? (His example on the question if I can know how to behave around people and know what is expected of me)
- If there was a big event in town and Police were showing people the way, would you follow their instructions? ( Also to see if I could understand expectations)
- What does raining cat's and dogs mean?( On the qustion of taking things litterary)
- If you moved to a new town how would you get friends? ( To check my social skills. On this one I honestly said I have no clue (but then I intelectualized and said " But I guess it would be a good idea to join a club of my interest?")
Non of them came even close to touching where the real poblems are... (possibly nr 4) I asked to give my own examples but he said it was not neccesary. When I asked to give them my own rapport of 36 pages he said they did not have the time.
2. He continued with saying that I was good at knowing when to speak, was clean (!?) and well dressed and did not speak with a monotone voice, so that does not speak for it being autism either. He also said I was emotional based on another question and that it aslo ruled out autism.
( So in his eyes an Autsitic person is dirty, monotone people who do not feel feelings, think that animals fall from the sky, burps straight out on weddings, refuses to follow orders from police...) I mean... what? We did not go into how I process information, n talking about me in groups, my social life, dating life, family life, work. I chose clothes for 2 hours before going there to try to represent my "true self" but also look formally dressed and avoid sensory disturbance...
I did not get to see what number he filled in on the questions for me and now my journal says I have done an asessment that showed nothing...
I've been asking for this for 5 years. I have been on sickleave for 7 and now this.
I live in Scandinavia. What do you guys say?
So, I know that the way Autism is assessed can vary between countires but I need to talk about this and see what you guys have to say, becauce I am concerend and I don't think it was taken seriousley.
I was denied a "real assessment" but got a "pre assessment" meating where they asked me a few questions. I was supposed to fill in some papers but since I was in a pretty bad state of mental fatigue he read them aloud. And so, here are the things I reacted to afterwards.
1. The questions honestly, felt insulting. The examples he took for each question was for short:
- Would you stand up on a wedding and burp for all to hear? (His example on the question if I can know how to behave around people and know what is expected of me)
- If there was a big event in town and Police were showing people the way, would you follow their instructions? ( Also to see if I could understand expectations)
- What does raining cat's and dogs mean?( On the qustion of taking things litterary)
- If you moved to a new town how would you get friends? ( To check my social skills. On this one I honestly said I have no clue (but then I intelectualized and said " But I guess it would be a good idea to join a club of my interest?")
Non of them came even close to touching where the real poblems are... (possibly nr 4) I asked to give my own examples but he said it was not neccesary. When I asked to give them my own rapport of 36 pages he said they did not have the time.
2. He continued with saying that I was good at knowing when to speak, was clean (!?) and well dressed and did not speak with a monotone voice, so that does not speak for it being autism either. He also said I was emotional based on another question and that it aslo ruled out autism.
( So in his eyes an Autsitic person is dirty, monotone people who do not feel feelings, think that animals fall from the sky, burps straight out on weddings, refuses to follow orders from police...) I mean... what? We did not go into how I process information, n talking about me in groups, my social life, dating life, family life, work. I chose clothes for 2 hours before going there to try to represent my "true self" but also look formally dressed and avoid sensory disturbance...
I did not get to see what number he filled in on the questions for me and now my journal says I have done an asessment that showed nothing...
I've been asking for this for 5 years. I have been on sickleave for 7 and now this.
I live in Scandinavia. What do you guys say?