Hi everyone! I haven't been on in a few weeks because I moved into an apartment so I was super busy and didn't have internet for a while. But it's good to be back!!!
Eh, I'll try to shrink this down a little bit. That ex-girlfriend/ex-fiance I always whined about on here? Yea, she and I went on a date on new years eve. The first time we've talked in about 7 months. The next day she said she didn't really how much she missed me, blah blah blah. This girl is the reason I've been to an alcoholics treatment program twice before. So of course I missed her like crazy too... but shocked beyond belief about how much I don't let her control me anymore. I didn't realize how much I had changed. She was surprised about it, too.
So we get to talking about maybe trying a relationship again. It was looking good but then she said that she plans on moving to (insert city here) with four other boys. I called her on the phone and nicely but firmly said, "If you even want a chance at us trying again then there's no way in hell you're moving in with four guys." Over the next few days she would say things like, "I really dont want to but I have no choice!" or "Why dont you trust me?!"
I took her on another date and this date wasn't forced and awkard at all, it was just like when we were in high school. Loving, fun, relaxed, light-hearted. We were high school sweethearts again, but still not an official couple.
...Then the next day she angrily texted me that she wont be moving in with those guys She's still somewhat grouchy and complaining about me not wanting her to live with those guys, but still not actually doing it.
So do you guys think that she was expecting me to give-in to her wishes and thats why it took her so long to decide on her living situation?
Am I being to harsh?
Lastly, I've been celebrating that this time she and I spent apart has changed me for the better. If we get back together thats great, but if we dont at least this time I'll have my pride and dignity intact after it crashes and burns
Eh, I'll try to shrink this down a little bit. That ex-girlfriend/ex-fiance I always whined about on here? Yea, she and I went on a date on new years eve. The first time we've talked in about 7 months. The next day she said she didn't really how much she missed me, blah blah blah. This girl is the reason I've been to an alcoholics treatment program twice before. So of course I missed her like crazy too... but shocked beyond belief about how much I don't let her control me anymore. I didn't realize how much I had changed. She was surprised about it, too.
So we get to talking about maybe trying a relationship again. It was looking good but then she said that she plans on moving to (insert city here) with four other boys. I called her on the phone and nicely but firmly said, "If you even want a chance at us trying again then there's no way in hell you're moving in with four guys." Over the next few days she would say things like, "I really dont want to but I have no choice!" or "Why dont you trust me?!"
I took her on another date and this date wasn't forced and awkard at all, it was just like when we were in high school. Loving, fun, relaxed, light-hearted. We were high school sweethearts again, but still not an official couple.
...Then the next day she angrily texted me that she wont be moving in with those guys She's still somewhat grouchy and complaining about me not wanting her to live with those guys, but still not actually doing it.
So do you guys think that she was expecting me to give-in to her wishes and thats why it took her so long to decide on her living situation?
Am I being to harsh?
Lastly, I've been celebrating that this time she and I spent apart has changed me for the better. If we get back together thats great, but if we dont at least this time I'll have my pride and dignity intact after it crashes and burns