Persephone_
Active Member
Hello! Thank you for you time, and I apologize in advance I am not a native English speaker!
I am a NT woman, that is going to finally meet a Guy (Aspie) that I been talking since forever.
The reason I am here asking for practical advice is that, he knew very recently he is an Aspie, and he told me. I could understand some of his "extravagant" behavior after I read about his condition.
So, the crazy thing is, we don't live in the same country, we are both adults, and I will travel to meet him in a few months. (I will stay in a hotel, to keep his privacy and also mine).
He already told me he can be cold and extremely shy in my presence in the beginning. And I am also asking him all I can, and trying to learn more how I should behave also.
Do you have any tips to tell me how to behave, cause, I am aware I will need to go slowly, but if I really like him, I also want to show him that.
I am also really aware this all can go really wrong, but, I would like to try. We have so many things in common, and he is also very excited (and frightened) about the possibility.
again, thank you!
I am a NT woman, that is going to finally meet a Guy (Aspie) that I been talking since forever.
The reason I am here asking for practical advice is that, he knew very recently he is an Aspie, and he told me. I could understand some of his "extravagant" behavior after I read about his condition.
So, the crazy thing is, we don't live in the same country, we are both adults, and I will travel to meet him in a few months. (I will stay in a hotel, to keep his privacy and also mine).
He already told me he can be cold and extremely shy in my presence in the beginning. And I am also asking him all I can, and trying to learn more how I should behave also.
Do you have any tips to tell me how to behave, cause, I am aware I will need to go slowly, but if I really like him, I also want to show him that.
I am also really aware this all can go really wrong, but, I would like to try. We have so many things in common, and he is also very excited (and frightened) about the possibility.
again, thank you!