need help being obsessed with someone ?

[Matt Summers]

i wash dishes he brings his tray up and he looks at me and we say hi but i just need a social story on not building up a friendship and following the rules at work

 

[tree]

Unless there is a rule against students and workers greeting each other, this is how I see it.

*I am washing dishes.
The student brings his tray up.
He looks at me.
I look at him.
He says "Hi."
I say "Hi" to him.
I keep washing dishes.
The student goes on his way.
I do my job.*

 

[Matt Summers]

okay here how i started so far
I see a lot of students at school where I work


My job is to work and wash dishes there


I should focus on my job and not worried about talking to them or saying hi to them.


It is okay if I see them I can say hi or give them a fist bump.


I do not try to built a friendship with them.


I do not give out my email or phone number to them or ask for theirs.

 

[tree]

Yes, that is the way those stories are written.

That's a helpful way to write the story from
the scene of you at work seeing students.

 

[Onna]

Yes, that is the way those stories are written.

That's a helpful way to write the story from
the scene of you at work seeing students.

Fascinating! And you were very helpful tree

 

[Matt Summers]

how would you end the story ?

 

[tree]

You are asking for an ending to the story.
The situation with you and students is a continuing one.

Can you see a mind movie that takes that into account?

Something like
I continue to work at the school.
I see the students during my time at work.
The students and I may greet each other. Or not.
They go their way, and I go mine.
I am satisfied with this.