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This all plays into a thought I had recently about one of YouTube's content providers, Emily Roberts of "Snake Discovery". She's wildly enthusiastic (and professionally knowledgeable) about anything and everything reptilian and has been for years.

Do I think she's on the spectrum of autism? NO.

 
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Please stay. You contribute a lot to the community with your posts.
Whatever you feel comfortable with as far as a username, just go for it.
It doesn't matter what traits you may or may not have. You know yourself and can decide if you feel you are Aspie or not.

I have too many traits not to be. I just didn't know what it all meant until I was in my mid 50's. I found answers to my life's history when I learned of Asperger's.
I did start as a baby not wanting to socialize or make eye contact. It went from there.
 
@FayetheAspie, I am 2e, too (externally validated on at least one of the e’s, self diagnosed on ASD.) If this site is of value to you (and, just to let you know, your presence here is of value to us) where’s the problem?
Usernames? Meh, they’re just identifiers so we don’t mix up who we’re talking to. Choose one that makes you happy.
 
Further i must say there's Truth in what @john says. Not the entire Truth, but partially.

Becsuse we Humans are dirt-bags, what some may call douchebags. We don't like eachother. Sadly we want likes.

The best thing anyone can do, in absence of good friends is to have no friends being Asperger's.
 
This all plays into a thought I had recently about one of YouTube's content providers, Emily Roberts of "Snake Discovery". She's wildly enthusiastic (and professionally knowledgeable) about anything and everything reptilian and has been for years.

Do I think she's on the spectrum of autism? NO.

I watched the first 5 minutes or so and a lot of it seems highly relatable such as the cheerful disposition, the jerky motion of switching from one thing to another as it's like "oh!yeah I need to do that first"without actually saying it, and even the little inserted comments such as the one about the hinges not being to scale and comparing them to the paper. I think you have found a pretty accurate comparison of my natural personality. In my case, I get to talking really loud and fast too of really excited and I have one of those faces that can make a lot of faces (think of someone like Jim Carrey) so if I have trouble lifting something, it doesn't work out, ECT I may make some silly faces for comedic effect as well. It is also common for me to giggle somewhat frequently and my Mama used to call me her "giggle box". I can have enthusiasm about a wide range of things from a favorite subject to it started snowing to seeing a new variety of insect to figuring out how something mechanical works to trying a new food to getting to have a conversation with a new potential friend (even if it didn't turn out in the end that they wanted to be). I do dig deeply into special interests but the special interests shift from one thing to another though several of them have continuously recycled back around frequently ever since childhood.
 
Maybe you are a high functioning empathic aspie? I do see autistic traits in you. Women have different traits when it comes to neurodiversity. We are not as rigid in our symptoms as males. Often, as we feel safe and are allowed to heal, allowed to safely love, those traits fade. At least they do with me.
Perhaps there is variation from this as well, but when I have read about female aspies presentation it involved a lot of masking as the reason for being potentially more "outgoing". I naturally made eye contact, shared information I learned with others, played with other children. My original oddities were things like not sitting still, constantly talking whether to family or strangers, a need to know how everything worked, science experiments that were typically quite spur of the moment and random as an idea popped into my head. Is this relatable? (Question intended for all the female aspies on the forum )
 
My family is strange largest branch does not exist by surname on my tree So the females are present suspect the males were autistic kept to themselves, whereas females got married had kids even through on spectrum. So yes they do present differently. When I used chromosome tool on the my heritage site, noticed a pattern I had a stretch of DNA in common with the females who carried this surname. Another thing I did showed only I had commonality my kids and non autistic brother did not.
 
You probably have a lot in common with my sister who I suspect is on spectrum She is not the same as us brothers
She even married a fellow Aspie. One of their sons I think is Autistic. My sister and three of her brothers including myself share a common blood type. We all are on the spectrum. Interesting maze.
 
It all does bring up the issue of how autism among females seems far more complex to diagnose compared to males. A lot to consider for women.
 
Ladies are a Mercy

I love my mom. I'm older FWIIW (edit) more well educated and well mannered Ladies gives Stronger better Sons and Daughters
 
It all does bring up the issue of how autism among females seems far more complex to diagnose compared to males. A lot to consider for women.
8 Signs of Autism in Women — THRIVING WELLNESS CENTER
A lot of the earlier part of the list is not relatable as being a part of my natural self. I didn't have to learn to use facial expressions as some masking behavior. Quite the contrary, I am naturally pretty animated but later started having a flat effect due to intimidation and am now working on being myself more frequently. I wasn't submissive in groups of my peers when I was little either. I did know to follow the instructions of authority figures but I was one of the more dominant children in groups of children until much later. I did not find socializing draining. If anything interacting with new potential friends left me with extra energy and increased hyperactivity symptoms. I didn't struggle to read people's intentions or facial expressions so I did not need to fake understanding and if I didn't understand something I would ask. Some of the later items did describe me such as being empathetic, being bullied, and having some sensory issues.
 
Yes, I definitely would like to see you stick around, no matter where you are with things. I really like what you bring here. You don't have to decide right now, and can take your time taking a look at who you are. I agree that many autistic people don't necessarily have all the signs. I was diagnosed with PDD NOS back when that was a thing. I don't have much of a problem with eye contact. I do have the stims, the social differences, the fixations (isn't there a better term for that? I don't like it for some reason). I very much have repetitive aspects, but not rituals. In the end, you do know yourself better than anyone else, and maybe you can turn this into a bit of an adventure of learning about yourself. In the end I think identity is dynamic and can be hard to classify. But definitely, I hope you'll stick around, no matter who you decide you are. You bring a lot here. And you are also welcome to share what you are learning here.
@RemyZee I've been looking into your mention of PDD-NOS. Basically it was a condition that was a catch all for people who met a lot of Autism and/or Asperger's criteria but didn't quite meet enough to be diagnosed with either. Some people with PDD-NOS are now included under ASD. Others who meet the social deficits part but not enough else are considered to have another condition. I believe it was called Social Communication Disorder. Those who did not have social deficits but had a lot of other autistic traits, simply don't fit diagnostic criteria now. I think that is where I probably fit. I would have likely had enough other autistic features such as obsessive interests and sensory issues for a PDD-NOS diagnosis back in the day but it no longer exists and since the social deficits part is where I was lacking symptoms, I don't see myself fitting current criteria. Which means that my psychiatrist 's first impression was right when she said she thought my diagnosis would be "ADHD with Autistic Features".
 
You seem to be quirky in a great way, maybe, this forum will help you towards your quest for employment. It's a very supportive group of members here. :)
 
There is a squirrel among us. ☺️

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I think everyone is on a spectrum. There's the Au portion of the spectrum...and seemingly several others. It probably doesn't even look like a circle graph, either. It's probably a figure 8 ...because it's infinite.
 

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