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my obession with my girlfriend

bluhmaster

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i have made various vent arts of my feelings towards her, some are somewhat positive, some are negative.

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anyway yeah im not healthy and I NEED HELP
 
It’s good to express very strong feelings through art.

Could you say a bit more, if it is appropriate, about what your obsessions are? What is it that you obsess about that is causing such strong feelings for you? Is she currently your girlfriend?
 
I don't claim to be wise at all, just hyper-intelligent, so I'll give you some advice, bud:

NEVER OBSESS OVER A POTENTIAL GIRLFRIEND. I hope that doesn't sound rude or mean, but it is 100% true. I made that mistake when I had my very very first gf and that relationship didn't even make it a week. If you're crazy about her, that's fine, but the "crazy" part should be something calm, a relaxed and inviting appreciation of your crush.

Just be honest and tell her how you really feel. The worst she can do is say no, or not be interested. But take my word for it; you'll know when and if she accepts you.

Sunny taught me that. She knows we're meant to be together. You'll have the same luck, I know you will :)
 
I agree with Rodafina's approach. It might be helpful to think about why you made this art and what thoughts/feelings it gives you. Perhaps you're expressing things you don't want to admit to yourself more directly, but need to acknowledge. And maybe your feeling of being unhealthy is more a reflection of the relationship than who you are.
 
I did most of my artwork during my most emotionally volatile relationships.

When I'm single and (supposedly) happier, I rarely ever draw.

Ed
 
It’s good to express very strong feelings through art.

Could you say a bit more, if it is appropriate, about what your obsessions are? What is it that you obsess about that is causing such strong feelings for you? Is she currently your girlfriend?
i think it might be her not telling me about her sudden break
 
i think it might be her not telling me about her sudden break
Getting blindsided by someone close to you is usually very upsetting. Maybe your obsession is just your way of processing and working through it right now. Hoping for positive change for you.
 

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