Meltdowns because of happiness

[Fino]

You're welcome

Oh nice. I think I'm going to be a psychologist and do music on the side

Well I'm not very good with fine motor skills but doing notes on ukelele is helping a bit but it's still hard.

Oooo. I'm not sure if I'm asexual, I dont really see people as attractive though I could acknowledge traits that may look nice and and I find sexual stuff disgusting so idk what that makes me.

Yeah I get that, I'm usually helping people because there are easily observable patterns to remember how to do that and its much easier, though easiest way to behave is to be with animals for me, especially dogs (and if I had been with wolves that to).

What got you into music?

That would make your career and music choices the same as me!

Music is always hard for everyone!

I didn't know I was asexual until I was 24. No rush!

I sort of answered that music question in the other thread since it seemed relevant there, too, but if that didn't answer it how you wanted then I can say something else about it.

 

[An Arctic fox]

Nice! {:

Yeah but when I was 2 i was told I had fine motor skill issues (that was my first autism testing) and continue to have a lot of trouble with writing which may be dysgraphia if i have it

I like labels and I want to know im just not sure how to figure out if im asexual.

Oh it worked fine {:

 

[Fino]

Nice! {:

Yeah but when I was 2 i was told I had fine motor skill issues (that was my first autism testing) and continue to have a lot of trouble with writing which may be dysgraphia if i have it

I like labels and I want to know im just not sure how to figure out if im asexual.

Oh it worked fine {:

I like labels too!

Asexual just means that the act of sex is not sexually stimulating. You don't find it pleasurable to imagine having sex with people, you have no physical desire to have sex with people, seeing people have triggers no physical response, and so on. It means that sex and dry wall are equal in their sexual appeal.

 

[An Arctic fox]

Labels are nice {:

I have no interest in it. Though it does trigger a pyshical response, but a mild one. (which I learned from one of my others (Thats what i call the personalities because personality dehumanizes them))

 

[Fino]

Sounds like you're not asexual then, just not particularly interested at this time in your life.

I have a close friend with DID and she calls them that, too.

 

[An Arctic fox]

Ok

ooo yay. I have (I think) 11 others, but most of them dont talk to me. i only talk to 4 of them very often and one more of them often

 

[Fino]

My main exposure to DID was the one mainstream source that I know: Sybil. That was one of the most famous cases. There's a book and a movie, or maybe you know all this already.

 

[An Arctic fox]

My main exposure to DID was the one mainstream source that I know: Sybil. That was one of the most famous cases. There's a book and a movie, or maybe you know all this already.

Well I dont know much about DID in mainstream media. though you can come to me with any questions {:

 

[Vindicator Phoenix]

Sometimes, when I'm excited, I stim frantically: flailing or flapping my arms and torso, while giggling.

Overall, it's a positive experience, as I love being excited.

 

[christopher.k]

i do though an energy or feeling in you that scatters your thoughts and makes you erratic seems more like excitement to me and im genuinely quite downbeat and a bit depressive so intense positivity is something i usually welcome
unless its at night when im trying to sleep of course