Married Autistics, Where Did You Meet Your Spouse...?

[Tiffany Kate]

Is he NT or neuro-diverse?*

*Neur-D includes ADHD & giftedness.

Nope. He's about as neurotypical as it's possible to get. He likes people. He gets on with pretty much everybody. He's one of those nice people that, if you don't like him, it says more about you than about him.

We're opposites in a lot of ways, but it works for us because we fill in each other's gaps. What really does help, though, is that he's learned that A) I say what I mean, and mean what I say; and B) Life is simpler all round if he does the same. He finds it restful, because he never has to spend time figuring out what I mean. It's right there, in words.

 

[Ronald Zeeman]

Interesting experience today sIsters birthday, My Aspie Nephew sisters son's girlfriend arranged a birthday party to meet the family for first time well attended chatted with her, asked her do you know he is on spectrum She said yes I knew when I meet him on dating site, She of looks India ethnicity, so I asked and she said I'm not Indian I'M French Guianese, They connected because both her and my nephew, speak fluent French. I filled her in on him Steven Hawking mixed with Wayne Gretzky. Welcome to family. Yes some women like us Aspies, just need to go outside the box to find them. Our family is not typical lots of eccentric members. the more you know about us the more you will like us.