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I truly thought I was the only one with this problem. I find it very difficult to deal with a certain type of person, usually found at work in a supervisory position. My anxiety level has increased enormously. Being unemployed makes me feel like a useless bum, which, of course, raises my anxiety level. Life in general seems to have gotten a lot harder. I try not to dwell on it.Yes, I went through a more 'stable period in my late twenties/early thirties where I was more social, more outgoing, more emotionally mature and stable, stable employment. Then I crashed; I burned out and I just can't do it any more. I can't go back to where I was. I never really became less autistic - it never goes away - I just became more able to cope with social and general anxiety, and with emotional issues, had more confidence so appeared to be 'normal'- or so I thought at the time - except I wasn't, because I still had the social and cognitive issues and as I got older, found it harder and harder to cope, then one or two autistic traits that I hadn't experienced for a while came back very strongly - a new obessive interest that took over my life, perhaps as a way to try to cope with the stress, and that led to various issues and consequences I won't go into detail here... I developed severe anxiety, depression and had to give up work, and it is at this point that I was diagnosed with Asperger's.
So my advice to you would be not to try to take on too much, as you get older, stress becomes harder to deal with and you don't want to crash or burn out.
Same here - 23 to 36 were my most stable, sociable, and workable years.Yes, I went through a more 'stable period in my late twenties/early thirties where I was more social, more outgoing, more emotionally mature and stable, stable employment.