It's so complicated, LIFE

[mikkyh]

My latest facebook status sums it up:


I sit, staring at the moon...pondering. Friends. People. Socializing. All the things that confuse me, the things I shouldn't think about. "BE HAPPY", I tell myself. People need you to BE HAPPY. I put on a smile, and turn to speak to mum. "I'm fine"

 

[BruceCM_Aspergic]

Does it work? Like the bad news? It only gets more complicated & difficult, really.

 

[xrobertxdavisx]

*hug*

I know how you feel. Felt like it for a long time. So long that I cant even fake a smile anymore.

Just I cant lie to people anyway so I struggle to say I am fine so I just say I'll be okay. Cause okay = alive. And I will be alive for a while so I will be okay.

Just try to think positive and hope for the near future.

I am sure things will be better soon.

If you got friends just spend time with them should cheer you up a bit.

 

[superboyian]

Mike, it would just be easier if you just speak to your mum about it probably, she probably could be feeling hurt as much as you are since you are her son...

If my son was feeling hurt, wouldn't I be hurt?

- superboyian

 

[Sipe]

Is this a poet or something? Or are you really having a hard time with life?

 

[mikkyh]

Is this a poet or something? Or are you really having a hard time with life?

LOL. No. That's actually what I did earlier.

 

[Calvert]

LOL @ Sipe.   :lol:

Michael, what is it exactly that you are having problems with life? Tell us specifically and we would be in a better position to help you. IIRC you've said before that you hate life. Why?

If it's to do with friends, tell us what your current situation is. Do you have any, or have but don't get to see them often?

 

[mikkyh]

<insult removed>

Cant be doing with this **** anymore.

 

[Calvert]

What's your problem? Either you want our help or you don't. If you don't want help then don't keep bringing the subject up. There's no need for personal insults.

 

[superboyian]

Michael, if there is any problems, why don't you speak to any of the moderating team here, we do try to help out as much as we can.
Just remember, insulting mods who are trying to help will lead to can get you into trouble and does lead you getting warned on other sites, because for some reason, like some sites which I will not mention, apparently they have mods that are real tough on us.

But I can understand if you was having a bad day today, we all have our moments (yes even me).

So yea, lets just start fresh and continue to give out good vibes.

 

[Emor]

Michael, if there is any problems, why don't you speak to any of the moderating team here, we do try to help out as much as we can.
Just remember, insulting mods who are trying to help will lead to can get you into trouble and does lead you getting warned.

Just. No.
EMZ=|

 

[Calvert]

 Like superboyian says, we are only trying to help you. If you don't want our help you can politely decline.      

 

[Emor]

Insults are insults and taking them personally and then not only retaliating but using special powers you've been using=****** moderating.
EMZ.

 

[superboyian]

Insults are insults and taking them personally and then not only retaliating but using special powers you've been using=****** moderating.
EMZ.

Just a little reminder... Just saying what happens on other support sites basically, because not everyone would accept that.

Should of basically mentioned that part what I just said above. :lol:

 

[Emor]

Yeah and sites like that(i.e WP) are notorious for their ****** moderatorship and corruption.
You can follow in their foot steps if you want but tbh you just end up with everyone hating you and getting automatically banned on all support sites except the one you moderate and then being banned from that one once exposed. By this point your unemployed and spending 16 hours a day on the computer and the forum's your life and you feel suicidal.
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EMZ=]

 

[superboyian]

Yeah and sites like that(i.e WP) are notorious for their ****** moderatorship and corruption.
You can follow in their foot steps if you want but tbh you just end up with everyone hating you and getting automatically banned on all support sites except the one you moderate and then being banned from that one once exposed. By this point your unemployed and spending 16 hours a day on the computer and the forum's your life and you feel suicidal.
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EMZ=]

As a matter of fact, thanks for your useful tips... I actually prefer it your style since you seem to have a positive view and I don't want to end up like what you have described above, certainly not what I would be dreaming of. :lol:

 

[Emor]

Thanks SB (Y).
I love how you accept I'm right. If only all humans were as wise (Y).
LOL.
EMZ=]

 

[superboyian]

Thanks SB (Y).
I love how you accept I'm right. If only all humans were as wise (Y).
LOL.
EMZ=]

You're very welcome. Don't forget good moderators always love to hear views from other members too. :lol:
Yaaaay, made another member happy. :thumbsup:

 

[Calvert]

Insults are insults and taking them personally and then not only retaliating but using special powers you've been using=****** moderating.
EMZ.

How exactly is that ****** moderating? I simply said to him that there's no need to insult and I removed the said insult. I don't see what's wrong with that. Even though I said the insult was personal, it was actually directed at everyone in the thread, so i'm not taking it personally. 

In the rules it clearly states not to flame or bash other members, as a moderator I am simply enforcing those rules. ****** moderating would be banning him on the spot and holding a grudge. I tried to help him and he insulted everyone, so I asked him not to. 



Once again, I feel this whole situation has been blown out of proportion. For the record, I don't hold any bad feelings towards Michael.

  

 

[Kempy]

I really do hate doing so, but I have to point out that the subject of this thread has changed from Michaels problems to a debate about effective moderating. If you read Michaels msn name, it is very clear that life is pretty **** for him at the moment. Sometimes, I feel so pissed off at something that I cant even tell people whats wrong. Whatever the problem (though there are probably several) he needs our sympathy. Judging by his age, bullying is probably partly to do with it, together with whatever else he is having to go through.

Michael, I know how **** things must be, and im not going to pretend that "positive mental attitude" is going to solve all of your problems, but I am going to say that you are most certainly at the most difficult time of your life. Trust me, things get better. Just make sure you come out of the other side alive!