Ice Blue Deer
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Hi everyone, I have a question. I'm just very curious.
There is this guy at my group therapy, him and his therapist suspect he has autism. I am almost sure he has it, but I can't say for sure of course.
When we started talking, we got along pretty well. I think he's a funny, different and interesting person. Now I was wondering if it could be that he's into me. I have a boyfriend so I'm not looking for someone, but I'm really curious what his behavior means. Of course nobody can read his mind, I can't, you can't, but... I guess I should just interpret these things as friendly gestures? On the second day of therapy (I had only known him for 2 days) we walked towards the train, we had some time left to wait. He wanted to eat something and me too, so we went to the Burger King. He bought me an ice cream. He also complimented me on my ring and my hair one day, and he called me the 'princess' of the building where our therapy takes place, because I knew a lot of people there. He also once said: 'did you know that these roses are used for making cocaine?' I said I thought it was interesting. The next week he had plucked one of these roses, put it in a carton coffee 'mug' and said 'this is for you!' I thought that was really sweet. Also, he sits very close to me when sitting next to him and talking at lunch (a bit too close for what is considered 'socially acceptable'). He also said to the group and therapists, that he was afraid that while telling his story he was staring too much at me. He seems to keep a little bit more distance and holding less eye contact lately, though. I'm interpreting this as friendliness because I don't want to make wrong assumptions, but what do you think?
I just find insignificant little things like this really interesting somehow.
There is this guy at my group therapy, him and his therapist suspect he has autism. I am almost sure he has it, but I can't say for sure of course.
When we started talking, we got along pretty well. I think he's a funny, different and interesting person. Now I was wondering if it could be that he's into me. I have a boyfriend so I'm not looking for someone, but I'm really curious what his behavior means. Of course nobody can read his mind, I can't, you can't, but... I guess I should just interpret these things as friendly gestures? On the second day of therapy (I had only known him for 2 days) we walked towards the train, we had some time left to wait. He wanted to eat something and me too, so we went to the Burger King. He bought me an ice cream. He also complimented me on my ring and my hair one day, and he called me the 'princess' of the building where our therapy takes place, because I knew a lot of people there. He also once said: 'did you know that these roses are used for making cocaine?' I said I thought it was interesting. The next week he had plucked one of these roses, put it in a carton coffee 'mug' and said 'this is for you!' I thought that was really sweet. Also, he sits very close to me when sitting next to him and talking at lunch (a bit too close for what is considered 'socially acceptable'). He also said to the group and therapists, that he was afraid that while telling his story he was staring too much at me. He seems to keep a little bit more distance and holding less eye contact lately, though. I'm interpreting this as friendliness because I don't want to make wrong assumptions, but what do you think?
I just find insignificant little things like this really interesting somehow.