interested in a girl

[GamingAdam]

I'm maybe crazy, but would it work to tell girl I'm interested in about my problems with my aspergers on fb, in a smart way and ask if she wanna see me , I don't think it's any other way to date a non-aspergers for me, should I leave her and go for a girl that has the same problem as me?

 

[Andy R]

One of the things with Asperger's is that we have friends of the opposite sex. Nearly all my good friends are female. I feel so much more comfortable around them. It is also thought that females are more tolerant of Asperger traits.

My advice would be to get to know her first. If you form a friendship or relationship then you can tell her at the appropriate time, i.e. when it feels right.

 

[Vanilla]

I'd say it's fair to give it a go, but I wouldn't tell her on Facebook. Firstly, because it's more appropriate to say it to her face, and secondly, you don't want to share something that personal online, especially since we live in a world with cyber bullies.

 

[Spinosaurus kin]

Yeah I'm with these guys. Try to form some kind of relationship before anything. Then tell her when you feel it is the right time. Try to get onto it in a conversation.
One idea is maybe talk about a TV show or movie where the character has aspergers, and bring it up there.
I'm sure there are plenty of other ways you could do it though.

 

[Turk]

Yep, totally agree,
Get to know her first. If she has no issues with you to start with, when you tell her, its not gunna be as big of a deal. I believe in full disclosure with Aspergers and relationships, but let them know the person first before you introduce them to the condition.

 

[GamingAdam]

anyhow we'll see what I'll do, but thanks for the ideas =)