Whoa, whoa, whoa, don't lash out at us just because we don't understand. Because I can tell you I have much more understanding of these issues than the average person who is still stuck getting their head around "bi", and I am confused.
This is what I understand these terms to mean:
Bisexual - meaning sexually attracted to both males and females
Asexual - meaning not sexually attracted to either sex, no interest in sex whatsoever
Aromantic - meaning not interested in romance/love/emotion
I think if you will google these three terms you will come up with similar definitions. To be sexually attracted to both sexes yet at the same time be sexually attracted to neither is a contradiction, as I pointed out. You either experience attraction or you don't. Now, if there is ANOTHER definition, one that would allow you to be both, before you start lashing out and calling us haters for lack of understanding, then you need to let people know what you mean when you say you are bisexual, asexual or aromantic, because those of us that are familiar with those terms are most likely going to be familiar with the three definitions I provided above. And they are going to be scratching their heads and saying "huh? so which is it?" So my question is, what do YOU mean by these terms? Are you aware of their meaning, or are you just repeating terms you've heard without really knowing what they are?
This is not a good footing for any kind of relationship if the other person has to play guessing games and say, ok, this person says they are sexually attracted to both sexes, but wait a minute, no they say they are not attracted to either, and now they say they are not interested in romance. So a valid question from their point of view is, what exactly is it that you are looking for in a relationship? It's really not cool to play games with someone who is potentially interested, it wastes their time and yours, and just creates misunderstanding. For the record, I am, or believe very strongly that I am, asexual (meaning not interested in a sexual relationship of any kind), and knowing that about myself, I don't go around trying to attract the sexual attention of other people, just so that I can slap them down when they do respond in that manner. If that makes me a hater, then so be it.