If a person is not going to treat you right?

[lovely_darlingprettybaby]

Why do they deserve to be treated as higher or better than you when you are vulnerable?
So essentially...
The fact is why do you need to show your loyalty to someone you have shown your loyalty to your whole life like they got a bit too arrogant and you have to suffer.
I am over it. I hace done so much for others why should I have to suffer?
I have suffered
I do not know what kind of arrogant vehicle would not see how much I have given or how much I have suffered
And yet people sit on a pedestal thinking they are better than me and cannot even say thank you and I am still humble and happy to take humble duties or offerings and yet people still think they are better.
I am tired of it and hope the whole thing falls down it was never worth sacrificing anything for arrogant people who think they are self sufficient and have nothing to thank me for and just need me instead of care about me and my happiness. The fact is I could never follow a system that favours one group of people over others who are actually decent people who hsce gotten something out of what I did and ate happy to thank me.
And give up my family who loved and cared about me all along.

 

[Cryptid]

If a person is not going to treat your right, then they do not deserve you at all.

 

[Fino]

If someone mistreats you, run. Immediately and permanently.

 

[VictorR]

You may wish to read about setting boundaries and then apply those principles.

 

[Kayla55]

It's not personal, they probably don't even remember doing this and you agonising.

I learnt this technique albeit late in life but very effective, stop caring about it...

 

[vergil96]

I would stop being friends with this person or would limit contact if it's a family member.

 

[NB79]

i believe autistic people, have issues defending themselves as a person, i mean normal people read this little sign that other people are trying to somehow be bad to them in the slightest, like something they don't like etc, and they adjust their expressions (all automatic) tone of voice, etc, we are oblivious on how to do all that we are out of that game.

 

[Levitat0r]

I'm not sure I follow entirely, but I think it's entirely typical (almost said 'normal') for us to be underestimated. The person who thinks you aren't clever enough to offer the right expressions and gestures, doesn't think you can do anything else right either. I'm sorry to say. But I relate for sure.