I really Don't know How To Feel

[DudBomb]

I had planned on bringing up Asperger's with my therapist today, but he beat me to it. He didn't give me an official diagnosis yet, but he did seem confident after a battery of questions. He's also the first therapist that has asked me about my non existent social/dating life. They're not easy topics for me to discuss. I got rather emotional. So much so, that my eyes began to water profusely.
Relived, anxious, happy, sad, I went through a range of emotions after our visit. I like my new therapist. I feel like he understands me more than my previous ones, and that's saying a lot. Every day's a roller coaster, come on and ride.

Edited for grammar and spelling errors, smh

 

[Blast off]

I have a similar visit tomorrow and hope to bring up the issue of "what he thinks is wrong with me". The problem is #1 language and #2 I always have all these plans on what I want to say to certain people, but when the opportunity arises, my mind goes blank. So instead I will just write him a letter in English so the asking won't be an issue (he can understand written English fairly well). I'm glad you found a good therapist. They are about 1 out of a billion.... Good luck on your future visits!

 

[DudBomb]

I can relate to mind going blank. He gives me time to think things through instead of trying to add lib an answer. Which can lead to coerced answers. Good luck to you too!

 

[Suzanne]

So glad you have found a good therapst and yes, can imagine the sense of not knowing what to feel. I would have that same reaction if the psychiatrist I will be seeing soon, reacted that way with me.

I am actually going to be formally diagnosed with social anxiety ( it is so bad, that I need help), but am frightened of being called a liar ( I was once before told this) and I live in France and she only knows a spattering of English; I can speak French to a certain point, but am fearful of the communication problem.

I would love for her to pick up aspergic traits; but I do not hold out much hope, because French professionals just do not do that and plus, aspergers is not recognised as authentic here.

 

[Southern Discomfort]

It sounds like he's good at his job, he's seems to be asking you the right questions. Definitely use the time you've got with him to its full potential, it could be really helpful for you in the long term.

 

[Blast off]

So glad you have found a good therapst and yes, can imagine the sense of not knowing what to feel. I would have that same reaction if the psychiatrist I will be seeing soon, reacted that way with me.

I am actually going to be formally diagnosed with social anxiety ( it is so bad, that I need help), but am frightened of being called a liar ( I was once before told this) and I live in France and she only knows a spattering of English; I can speak French to a certain point, but am fearful of the communication problem.

I would love for her to pick up aspergic traits; but I do not hold out much hope, because French professionals just do not do that and plus, aspergers is not recognised as authentic here.

Good luck I know all about trying to communicate neurological/psychological issues in broken language. Hope you can get through it and get the help you need!

 

[Suzanne]

@Blast off

Thanks so much. I have to get my husband to phone and book for me. I did have an appointment, but developed a dreadful cough and so, had to cancel. In a way, I am a bit more ready now, than I was; mind's on over time, but since then, I have had other "chances" to show the severity of social anxiety and therefore, with the help of my husband ( I hope), she will take me serious.

My husband speaks better than me and so, if there is any confusion, I do hope he can join us and explain things.

 

[Grandmother B]

I had planned on bringing up Asperger's with my therapist today, but he beat me to it. He didn't give me an official diagnosis yet, but he did seem confident after a battery of questions. He's also the first therapist that has asked me about my non existent social/dating life. They're not easy topics for me to discuss. I got rather emotional. So much so, that my eyes began to water profusely.
Relived, anxious, happy, sad, I went through a range of emotions after our visit. I like my new therapist. I feel like he understands me more than my previous ones, and that's saying a lot. Every day's a roller coaster, come on and ride.

Edited for grammar and spelling errors, smh

A pneuropsychologist can give you a true diagnosis. Also go to www.aspergerexperts.com for help. The guys that run this site have AS and know all about these kinds of feelings, the anxiety, the social awkwardness, and all that. They have some paid programs but a lot of their videos and advice are free.