Hi Jada
I hear you and been there when I was your age and it does certainly make you not want to see another human being again! And still go through it!
There is another new female aspie here, who I believe is your age of 15.
Yes, it is horrendeously annoying and frustrating when nts say they are being clear, when they are most certainly not and what about this, which occurred yesterday? It was me chatting with one of my nieces and all I asked her was: what are your plans for this evening? She responded with something that turned me cold and later when I had to address it, she said it was my fault for saying: what are you doing at HOME and she did put that in capitals. Now the issue was not with her on this, but my husband, because I could not deal with the barrage of "you should do this etc, from a young woman who does not know my history. Well, my husband was typing to her and I said to correct her on the fact that I did not say: HOME, but he REFUSED to and said it not important and no matter how I tried to explain it was, he just said: it is rather nitpicking, yet, for goodness sake, she got upset with me, because she misread what I said.
Anyway, I sent her a huge message; having to do it in my head first, because it is so easy to say the wrong word and explained that I did not say: what you are doing at HOME. Said that she can scroll up to see that I clearly did not and happily she thanked me for explaining it to her.
My husband is the joker at other's expense. He deliberately takes things literally, just to have fun with me and I told him, as he responded to our spiritual daughter, please state who you are, because it will confuse her. He just laughed and was being silly, but guess what? It did confuse her and she got angry too! But he just laughed. I say all the time, if you are going to text something to the person I am talking to, then state it is you, because it just confuses the other one and causes distrust and he doesn't care.
Happily, not all nt's are like this!
