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How do you know if you are sexually compatible with a less experienced person?

I got more out of watching that years ago documentary series on HBO about real sex and sexuality. Porn is too much like fantasy fiction, and I hear that it's only gotten more so.

Curious, too, I often wonder how many of us have the same mentality that I do where my focus is on pleasing my partner? I don't ever have the mindset of my pleasure as the focus, it's all about her, and even if I don't climax, that's okay. Just curious. Don't let me derail the thread with this question, though.
 
paloftoon said:
Is it okay to watch videos on your own to learn from then?
Or maybe you can find a forum where they are comfortable telling you about things you can try that might interest you.
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Oh I could do that, I just don't know what I would be looking for in such videos.
 
JM33 said:
Oh I could do that, I just don't know what I would be looking for in such videos.
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Can you re-post this and that you'd want to know what to look for in the adult section of this forum?
Then send me a message with the link to remind me to respond if I forget about it in 4 days?

Thanks!
 
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