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How do I become more callous at work and not feel guilt?

Oh no no no no no. Insults are met with like kind - but - I grew up with Poms and quick witted banter and there's a real art to insulting someone. The idea is to get all the rest of the crowd laughing at them and it was a game I was quite good at. In fact my mouth is often far faster than my brain.
Oooh tbh that makes more sense.

About a week later Geoff was in the darkroom making plates when this person came down to empty bins, there was no one else around, I held my hand out to shake and said "Hi, I'm Andrew, by the way." She said "Hi, I'm Jane." and shook my hand.
:)

grew up with Poms
Trees?
Pieces Of Meat Sandwiches?
Plenty of Male Siblings?
 

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