Me too, with deep shame, but at the same time, I believe it depends on what the person is saying. What if the person, who knows you well, starts the conversation with a major controversial comment? I believe that the person has the responsibilty to not do that, because they are expecting you to not assume.
I fail most times and could kick myself.
ondering how everyone else just magically gets along with each other and why can't I do diddly squat? I didn't even know about Asperger's back then, and all I wanted to do was get along with people better - NOT push them away!! I swear to God I was the only social outcast at that department...from this point of view it seems like pretty much all my classmates were NT. I should have just been quiet if I had no way of knowing how to better my social skills. I tried way too hard to fit in and ended up being very annoying and very obnoxious without even realizing it -
My stint in college, was pretty much what you describe. I just put it down to me having a very obnoxious presence; made worse, the fact that I was already married and in my early 20's and the only one to be married and yet, I looked YOUNGER than the younger ones. So, I was ripe for the bully tactics and had no idea how to rectfy it and had not even heard of aspergers then. I would watch in abject envy as I saw girls getting on with each other. I wanted so much to be a part of that group; but in effect I would seen as a bothersome fly or something.
I made a stupid error, but actually asking one girl was she did not like me and oh, dear, of course she laughed at me and told me that I need to get a life and guess what? She upped her distaste of me!
For lunch, I would sit alone, on a bench, and just wait for lunch to be over. Did I feel ok? Not at all. I sensed how inane it was, especially as my tummy was growling and "kindly" reminding me of how stupid I was being, but I could not walk into that canteen with the noise. I would try and act as though it was completely natural for me to sit there, but really, people did not care a jot who was sitting there alone; it was me, being my worst enemy.
Unfortunately, I have not changed, despite my age. I still would sit on that bench, but perhaps this time, would feel better, because I would have a device on me and talk to people I know online, where I am tons better.