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Hello, my name is Brian, I am new here.

Judge said:
To my observation here over the years, women interested in particular men here manage to connect through Private Messaging. Not open threads for everyone to weigh in on.

That said, I can think of four members who managed to marry one another. Though both marriages ended in divorce as well. Haven't seen any of them here in some time.

I can't blame anyone for wanting to keep such socialization relatively private...male or female.
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I myself found a man here, and I didn't come here to search for anyone, so yeah, true that.
The last thing I would want is to openly search for anyone to date, or start chatting with anyone who is specifically searching for a date. That's just not me. If anything ever happens - it is through friendship.
 
Tired said:
I myself found a man here, and I didn't come here to search for anyone, so yeah, true that.
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Indeed. I suspect some of those I mentioned probably didn't have the same intention either. That it just happened. Another reason for people so desperate to make such a connection take heart in how things can happen when you least expect them to.
 
Tired said:
I myself found a man here, and I didn't come here to search for anyone, so yeah, true that.
The last thing I would want is to openly search for anyone to date, or start chatting with anyone who is specifically searching for a date. That's just not me. If anything ever happens - it is through friendship.
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To each their own. I do not mind being upfront and honest about my desire for a girlfriend :)

The more people I can talk to about my desire for a girlfriend hopefully the sooner I can get into a relationship :)
 
I'm a woman myself and I know that if a man becomes an incel then he likely has issues to begin with and that is a red flag because he won't suddenly become all affectionate and loving once a girl does take an interest but I could be wrong

You're not like that - you're calm and understanding and positive so that will likely give you more chance of finding someone online I reckon
 
Chingching said:
I'm a woman myself and I know that if a man becomes an incel then he likely has issues to begin with and that is a red flag because he won't suddenly become all affectionate and loving once a girl does take an interest but I could be wrong

You're not like that - you're calm and understanding and positive so that will likely give you more chances of finding someone online I reckon
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Thanks, I try not to judge others too much. I just try and be as kind and honest to other people as possible :) thank you again.
 
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