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I think its women in general " extreme shyness"Not among "gynes."
Also, is that a fear of women's behavioral tendencies or their female-specific body parts?
I think its women in general " extreme shyness"
Lucy, i know about the Google definition of gynophobia but i dont hate women, quite the opposite. My problem is i fear women & have done since my early teens. The fact is i have never had a relationship or sex with one. As you can imagine it is quiet frustrating by the time you are 72 & still a virgin. It was made worse cause women used to approach me not the other way round. I wasnt a bad lookig lad they said i looked like David Essex ( whoever he is) but if they made it clear they liked me i used to shake like a leaf then make an excuse to leave. I've been like that ever since. I think your mistaking me for a misogonist which i am not.Is there a link between aspergers & gynophobia?
Lucy, i know about the Google definition of gynophobia but i dont hate women, quite the opposite. My problem is i fear women & have done since my early teens. The fact is i have never had a relationship or sex with one. As you can imagine it is quiet frustrating by the time you are 72 & still a virgin. It was made worse cause women used to approach me not the other way round. I wasnt a bad lookig lad they said i looked like David Essex ( whoever he is) but if they made it clear they liked me i used to shake like a leaf then make an excuse to leave. I've been like that ever since. I think your mistaking me for a misogonist which i am not.
The definition I read was obviously incorrect and I apologize for that.
Thats what i sad in the last post "EXTREME FEAR" & i dont know the reason why. Ive seen many therapist over the years but they have all been useless & some of them expensive. I am to old to change now & expect to die a virgin. Thats life.No, no not mistaking you for a misogynist at all just thought you didn't realize that the definition included strongly negative feelings towards women. Sounds like you have more an extreme shyness bordering on fear. What are you afraid of?
I want to say this sounds more like a matter of semantics relative to medical conditions. Which can "blur" the interpretation of such subjects. Yet this isn't the only place online you can find such questions.
https://www.quora.com/Are-autism-and-gynophobia-fear-of-women-comorbid
I can only cite in my own case that my social anxiety was never driven by gender concerns. Yet again I feel compelled to ponder the difference between a pathological "phobia" and generalized anxiety. Where is that line drawn?
Not sure. I'm the opposite, afraid of men but I always thought it was because I was abused and not due to ASD.
Good point.I'd think fears based solidly on reality are closer to being based on conditions like PTSD.
Perhaps you could find contact information for Dr. Gilmartin, in order to ask him to please tell you more about his reasons for this statement.In doctor Gilmartins book called"shyness & love" he states that loveshyness as he calls it may well be connected to aspergers syndrome. But i dont know for sure.