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Good changes which inspire imagination

Suzanne

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My husband is a great one for having wonderful ideas, but very, very slow in putting them to action or not at all, so it was with immense surprise when he came out with one of his great ideas and wow, it took around 3 or so month's to complete.

He is untidy; I am not. I like everything in order and he says that his is a "tidy mess", which in fact is complete opposite.

Usually, I groan about his mess of paperwork and seriously, he will have pieces of paper with phone number from year's ago. But with a bit of rearranging in our kitchen, comes my imagination and absolute zeal for keeping things tidy. The table must on have a few things on it and at best, just a decoration.

I have been thinking: why has it taken me close to 27 years to see that I can control my husband's paper work and has his approval?

Anyone else find that good changes create new thoughts?
 
I’m not 100% sure what you’re asking @Suzanne but the use of the words “change” and “creating new thoughts” is something I find usually goes together, like Bert and Ernie, Rhubarb and Custard, Benson and Hedges.

I dislike change
BUT
Also know it shakes things up a little, helps shake up some rigid thought patterns allowing me to see other ideas, perspectives.

A bit like putting a window in the walls I feel safest behind.

I’m pleased rearranging your kitchen helped your imagination and creativity:)
 
I’m not 100% sure what you’re asking @Suzanne but the use of the words “change” and “creating new thoughts” is something I find usually goes together, like Bert and Ernie, Rhubarb and Custard, Benson and Hedges.

I dislike change
BUT
Also know it shakes things up a little, helps shake up some rigid thought patterns allowing me to see other ideas, perspectives.

A bit like putting a window in the walls I feel safest behind.

I’m pleased rearranging your kitchen helped your imagination and creativity:)

I do not like change either; but I do like change as in rearranging my home; because it inspires me and I just wondered if other felt that way too?

Tomorrow, I am going out for the afternoon and can feel the anxiety kicking in and so, trying to not think too deeply about it, because it is going to be with two people I like.

I was thinking that when a bit of a change or swap around etc, occurs, my imagination and creativity kicks in and it is fun lol
 
My husband is a great one for having wonderful ideas, but very, very slow in putting them to action or not at all, so it was with immense surprise when he came out with one of his great ideas and wow, it took around 3 or so month's to complete.

He is untidy; I am not. I like everything in order and he says that his is a "tidy mess", which in fact is complete opposite.

Usually, I groan about his mess of paperwork and seriously, he will have pieces of paper with phone number from year's ago. But with a bit of rearranging in our kitchen, comes my imagination and absolute zeal for keeping things tidy. The table must on have a few things on it and at best, just a decoration.

I have been thinking: why has it taken me close to 27 years to see that I can control my husband's paper work and has his approval?

Anyone else find that good changes create new thoughts?
I don't get good thoughts I get good feelings calm for a second or less frustrated.
 
I do not like change either; but I do like change as in rearranging my home; because it inspires me and I just wondered if other felt that way too?

Tomorrow, I am going out for the afternoon and can feel the anxiety kicking in and so, trying to not think too deeply about it, because it is going to be with two people I like.

I was thinking that when a bit of a change or swap around etc, occurs, my imagination and creativity kicks in and it is fun lol

Agreed :)
I rearrange my own home often, my gardens even more so.

It does inspire a sense of achievement and pleasure at the results with some encouragement to try new ideas.
 

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