Getting intimate

[angie78]

ok, lemme get this all straight in me head- the counselor was late, AND the counselor's focus was not in the room?

The counselor was late and my other half couldn't concentrate.

 

[angie78]

Must you have sex anyway ???

When it's what we both want, yes

 

[Hopeless_Aspie_Guy]

When it's what we both want, yes

Very well, go forth and bow-chi-chi-wow-wow.

had some snippy, uncalled for response here.

Snippy lol

 

[abby normal]

The counselor was late and my other half couldn't concentrate.

that sucks, I hope there is another meeting scheduled when the elements are more in place, hopefully with a DIFFERENT counselor that isn't a flake.

 

[angie78]

that sucks, I hope there is another meeting scheduled when the elements are more in place, hopefully with a DIFFERENT counselor that isn't a flake.

It's the other halves session this week and he's open to giving this one another go. Good appointment at the mental health team and drs today so he's more positive.
I really appreciate your prayers as it seems there is no one in our area to help with strategies etc so we are going it alone and looking for advice from any NT/aspie couples out there x

 

[abby normal]

It's the other halves session this week and he's open to giving this one another go. Good appointment at the mental health team and drs today so he's more positive.
I really appreciate your prayers as it seems there is no one in our area to help with strategies etc so we are going it alone and looking for advice from any NT/aspie couples out there x

another thing that popped into my head, is that if you exercise together, hot sweaty exercise, on a regular basis, that will have multiple benefits among them increased libido, especially if you shower together afterwards.

 

[angie78]

Well he has been told to lose weight so would benefit both of us.

 

[abby normal]

Well he has been told to lose weight so would benefit both of us.

I hope that he is able to succeed, he needs to think of weight loss as a lifestyle and not merely a temporary action. a journey, not a destination.

 

[Peter Jansen]

Hello, everyone!

Is it okay to be glad you are not a virgin if you are 40 years old and unmarried? I am attracted to NT women and can interact with them as if I were an NT myself. It's not likely that I would ever be married and yet I am healthy heterosexual man. I'm aware of the whole "MGTOW" phenomenon but it seems to me like the refuge of bitter male disillusionment.