I'm an established member of a couple of ASD forums, and I've noticed that on these forums, other established members seem to have formed a connection or bond between themselves, I'm not sure how, perhaps they PM each other and get to know each other better, or they know each other IRL or from some other forum or use the chat... I don't know how this happens for others, but somehow this doesn't happen with me. For example, on this forum I've noticed that people are writing messages on each other's profile status, but during the 5 or so months that I've been a member of the forum, I've only ever had one such message. I used to belong to a Skype group whose members were on the spectrum, and they all bonded with each other, but not with me. I'm not criticising anyone, nor do I want to draw attention to myself or wallow in self-pity, but it does make me realise that I'm different even to people on the spectrum as they seem to be able to bond with each other and form more social connections, but I'm not. Now you will probably be thinking that I should be the one who contacts people to get to know them, I should make more effort, but it's not that easy. I find it very difficult to approach people. I feel I need to have a specific reason for doing so, I can't just approach people to chat or make friends, I don't know what to say or talk about. It feels very awkward to me. Feeling that I have no common interests with others doesn't help either, and I think that others find me boring. I thought that others on the spectrum also had this problem, but it appears not to be the case, it's just me who has the problem.