Another problem I have encountered many many times happened to me tonight. I feel like I am not in the room even when I am siting next to him. We went to the movies and as always he was so into the movie that he barely payed any attention to me. He would make jokes and commentary but no affection whatsoever. Sometimes he will rub my neck but I have to lean forward as kindof a "signal" to let him know my back hurts (I have chronic back pain). He doesn't lean over to kiss me randomly or show any kindof interestin being with me just to be with me. He pretty much may as well be by himself in the theater and he would have just as good a time. I on the other hand sit there and stare at him waiting for some kindof of recognition I even lean over and put my arm around him and kiss his neck or ear and he just stays completely zoned out. Then when the movie is over he just talks about the movie and how great it is. I wonder why he is even with me sometimes is perfectly content seeing me like twice a week and having sex once a week if that and I have to initiate. He acts like I am not there but then when I am home and get on the computer and look at facebook he gets upset and goes OK you can do that when I am gone and decides to leave. I just said okay and my eyes started tearing up as I walk him to the door. He acts all surprised as if I don't have any reason to be upset and goes are you ok? I was too upset over the frustration-ridden night that I wanted to explode so I just said I am ok I need to get some sleep. He goes no you're not ok I go Im fine and he is like well ok then and he leaves. I just want to give up.