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families suck

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eonbus

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families suck bare none. they blame and torture their own relatives. they dont like autism. they kill their families and i believe that families should kill themselves. leaving kids on the street and ****. you know what if i had a child. i wouldnt abandon him or her. but the reason i dont have a child is because women are a pain in the ass and they dont want a child from me. so screw them.
 
Well, that was unpleasant to read. Particularly from a young fellow like you. For me, my family is everything. Starting with my wife and kids, grandkids and great grandkids. When I was a young man, I would never have guessed my life would be this great. So don't give up. Maybe you can be the one in your family to do it right. It is up to you. Good luck.
 
Not all families suck. Maybe it is best for you to start living independently if your family isn't respecting you. Or, maybe there are some changes you need to make in yourself. We would need to know more to help you out either way.
 
Sportster said:
I agree, clg; that was unpleasant to read. I hope the OP will reflect on his position after he calms down. I came from a VERY screwed up bunch of people, so I was the one to make the change; rather ironic when you think about it, because the Aspie had to be the one to end the dysfunctional cycle.:rolleyes:
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clg114 said:
Well, that was unpleasant to read. Particularly from a young fellow like you. For me, my family is everything. Starting with my wife and kids, grandkids and great grandkids. When I was a young man, I would never have guessed my life would be this great. So don't give up. Maybe you can be the one in your family to do it right. It is up to you. Good luck.
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I feel a pretty bad, for the OP. Both sportster and cig are right. Family is important to me, I have a 3 month to old niece I adore, I'm one of three men in her life including her father and grandfather. I want to be the best uncle I can sense I'm the only one she has.
 
eonbus said:
families suck bare none. they blame and torture their own relatives. they dont like autism. they kill their families and i believe that families should kill themselves. leaving kids on the street and ****. you know what if i had a child. i wouldnt abandon him or her. but the reason i dont have a child is because women are a pain in the ass and they dont want a child from me. so screw them.
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This post suffers from over-generalization, I think.
It expresses pain in a hostile & defensive way.

The loyalty to the hypothetical child is admirable.
The logic of the post is smothered by the emotion.
 
My family are great, even the ones I don't get along with that well are supportive and caring despite our lack of mutual understanding.

A rather large helping of over-generalisation and hostility going on in the OP... Sounds like it's time to move far away from the mentioned family. And maybe not be so hostile to women just because a few have rejected you (I'm assuming).
 
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