I know.
You must be this way or that way etc.
I am afraid I am "digging" my heels in now and well this is a no no in the NT world.
Just yesterday, a my sister contacted me and said that it is one of my niece's birth date Thursday. In the past, had very limited contact, but things have changed.
Anyway, my husband and I do not acknowledge birthdays.
I did something that rarely happens. Got in touch with my niece and reassured her of our affections, despite no birthday wishes.
Rather taken back when she responded in an excellent way. Thanked me for the respect.
I have to be reminded to send greetings and in truth, annoys me.
I am very feminine in my clothes and although I do have some trousers, do not feel comfortable in them.
We all have to conform in some areas though, so I try my best.
You must be this way or that way etc.
I am afraid I am "digging" my heels in now and well this is a no no in the NT world.
Just yesterday, a my sister contacted me and said that it is one of my niece's birth date Thursday. In the past, had very limited contact, but things have changed.
Anyway, my husband and I do not acknowledge birthdays.
I did something that rarely happens. Got in touch with my niece and reassured her of our affections, despite no birthday wishes.
Rather taken back when she responded in an excellent way. Thanked me for the respect.
I have to be reminded to send greetings and in truth, annoys me.
I am very feminine in my clothes and although I do have some trousers, do not feel comfortable in them.
We all have to conform in some areas though, so I try my best.