I could be very wrong, but that is not how I interpreted King Oni's words at all. To me, I read King Oni's post as trying to recognize that Aspies, too, make very serious sacrifices and compromises in relationships. And, there is the very real chance that an Aspie's sacrifices/compromises are sadly overlooked, because there is such a prevalent expectation that NT behavior is "normal" and Aspie behavior is "abnormal," and so the burden always falls on Aspies to "fix" theirs. And, that's not cool.
Sure, I'm over here making some adjustments to my behavior (like getting used to long breaks in between visits, less physical touch, etc.), but I can only IMAGINE the stress that my Aspie is under sometimes. For him, hanging out and watching Netflix with me for a couple hours might be ridiculously uncomfortable, for a whole host of reasons, and I need to be aware of and sensitive to that. I think my NT brain might be quick to assume that it's not "too much" for him to spend time with me or tell me that he likes me, but for him, that might be a MAJOR compromise that he's trying to make for me.
If, as an NT, I'm claiming to be under some measure of stress in my attempts to connect with him, I better be willing to recognize the stress he undergoes in his attempts to connect with me.