Are there any diagnosed auties or aspies who read fiction as children and could socialise and tell people's intentions?
I ask because I feel really guilty.
I learnt to read at two.
As I was a an early talker and bright, out of nappies at 1, and a late walker, my Dad used to focus on my shortcomings.
It wasnt his fault, he had a sadistic streak and narcissism from early abuse.
I gave up reading, which made my mum really sad.
In my early life at two when reading, I remember loving nature, and my mum being empathic and loving.
Not once did she bully or pressure me into reading, she was proud and though I was gifted.
Part of narcissism is that you cannot be outshone as it is too painful for you, which is why my Dad belittled me and talked about my shortcomings.
This is why I gave up reading.
Had I of kept reading, I knwo I would still be autistic as I Was born with it, but I would have had the intuition to know what he was up to, if reading gives autistic kids cognitive empathy.
I would also have been able to warn my mum how dangerous my dad was and that if we didnt move away from him, we would be living in fear for the rest of our lives.
Instead, as I gave up reading, my mum slowly acquired some of his traits and some negative ones of her own, so became violent and abusive herself and instead of being the gifted successful adult I was supposed to be, I rely on state handouts and am a drug addict (the doctor prescribes the drugs, as I am now supervised)
I ask because I feel really guilty.
I learnt to read at two.
As I was a an early talker and bright, out of nappies at 1, and a late walker, my Dad used to focus on my shortcomings.
It wasnt his fault, he had a sadistic streak and narcissism from early abuse.
I gave up reading, which made my mum really sad.
In my early life at two when reading, I remember loving nature, and my mum being empathic and loving.
Not once did she bully or pressure me into reading, she was proud and though I was gifted.
Part of narcissism is that you cannot be outshone as it is too painful for you, which is why my Dad belittled me and talked about my shortcomings.
This is why I gave up reading.
Had I of kept reading, I knwo I would still be autistic as I Was born with it, but I would have had the intuition to know what he was up to, if reading gives autistic kids cognitive empathy.
I would also have been able to warn my mum how dangerous my dad was and that if we didnt move away from him, we would be living in fear for the rest of our lives.
Instead, as I gave up reading, my mum slowly acquired some of his traits and some negative ones of her own, so became violent and abusive herself and instead of being the gifted successful adult I was supposed to be, I rely on state handouts and am a drug addict (the doctor prescribes the drugs, as I am now supervised)