I work at my Dad's company and pretty much keep to myself. I like most of the employees except for one person. She's overbearing and annoying, and I try to avoid her as much as possible. She's obsessed with having a Christmas party each year, and my dad lets her take care of it. I was thinking that due to COVID, it wouldn't happen. Unfortunately, she decided unilaterally that we would order takeout and eat dinner together. She picked the restaurant herself and would never think to ask for anyone's input. I would rather watch static on a television than have a company meal after hours. I asked my dad why we couldn't just have lunch. It's our last day of work before holiday break, and I really just want to get home. He said that she told him the restaurant isn't open for lunch which isn't even true. Before she left last night, she was like "make sure you look at the menu." I told her thank you, but I wouldn't be attending. She comes in this morning and acts like I never declined the invite. I know as soon as she finds out I'm leaving at the end of the day, she'll be pestering me nonstop. As will other people in the office. I find holiday work parties to be a complete waste of time. I don't want to spend time with these people, don't want to eat with them, and don't feel like making small talk. Not to mention that I can't stand being told what to do. I don't know why people pressure you when you specifically tell them you're not interested. I always feel like a total outcast. I (mostly) want to be left alone, but that doesn't stop people from pulling me in 15 different directions.