I’m not quite sure myself.. but I have been thinking of the things that I do (I am an over thinker) and it occured to me that I am quite selfish at times.
I love travelling and go away places quite often.
Tomorrow i’m off to Windsor.. I nagged my mother, who eventually agreed to go...bought the tickets.
But now I feel quite guilty. My mum is fine going down to Windsor but it’s an awfully long journey all for my own wants and interests.
Mum isn’t totally interested in going and is just going because I paid etc.
I’m not sure if this is inherently selfish. But I do, nag people to go places quite often to suite my own needs.
I think maybe it’s unfair taking my mum three hours, with a change in London just to satisfy my own interests.
I might just not go now and stay at home. I would rather sit here and let my mum do her own thing in peace than feel the guilt of having her go somewhere where she is not desperately keen on going. It’s overkill.
I love travelling and go away places quite often.
Tomorrow i’m off to Windsor.. I nagged my mother, who eventually agreed to go...bought the tickets.
But now I feel quite guilty. My mum is fine going down to Windsor but it’s an awfully long journey all for my own wants and interests.
Mum isn’t totally interested in going and is just going because I paid etc.
I’m not sure if this is inherently selfish. But I do, nag people to go places quite often to suite my own needs.
I think maybe it’s unfair taking my mum three hours, with a change in London just to satisfy my own interests.
I might just not go now and stay at home. I would rather sit here and let my mum do her own thing in peace than feel the guilt of having her go somewhere where she is not desperately keen on going. It’s overkill.