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Do most people dislike you?

Jumpback said:
when I try to explain or get stuck on how I feel like these things have destroyed my adult life, people often hate me over this
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Jumpback said:
One issue, always exactly the same issue. This issue not there=people like me, this issue there=people ganging up from every direction and hating my guts or at least me accusing me of endless things and being tried and convicted of being guilty of absurd assumptions others have as a result of my realities being inconvenient to others beliefs, or at least finding creative ways to find me guilty of something or hating me for my real life traumas being contrary o the dominant power the masses are forced to agree with.
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This is actually an appropriate post in that it demonstrates how some autistic traits actually make us justifiably unlikable. Autistic people have a tendency toward repetition, and our social ineptitude and lack of empathy can often make us unaware that we seriously annoy people when we, for example, repeat the same thing over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again and hijack every conversation by redirecting what another person says back around to our same repeated topic and making it all about us—as Jumpback does in nearly every single post I’ve read of his. This behavior can make us deeply unpleasant.
 
Kalinychta said:
hijack every conversation by redirecting what another person says back around to our same repeated topic and making it all about us
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Allistics do this, they just don't notice when their interests overlap…

And on a forum, you don't necessarily redirect the conversation just because you go in another direction for a bit. It's okay to be autistic here.
 
Kalinychta said:
This is actually an appropriate post in that it demonstrates how some autistic traits actually make us justifiably unlikable. Autistic people have a tendency toward repetition, and our social ineptitude and lack of empathy can often make us unaware that we seriously annoy people when we, for example, repeat the same thing over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again and hijack every conversation by redirecting what another person says back around to our same repeated topic and making it all about us—as Jumpback does in nearly every single post I’ve read of his. This behavior can make us deeply unpleasant.
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That’s not fair, I talk about lots of other things.

It just is one issue that has repeated from when I was 21 until just now, and I am so deeply upset by all it has taken away from me that it dominates all my thoughts.

But it just is one issue, and a whole bunch of things around this issue that upsets me and people don’t like me over this, but it’s only always just things around this one issue. I become very upset about it endlessly, then others become very upset with me endlessly for being upset about it.

But, otherwise, people seem to generally like me
 
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