did I go about this wrong??

[SinanAktas]

Im 15 and a guy, I've seen a cute grocery store bag person at my publix some times. Once I struck up a small conversation with her and I found out she wasn't just pretty; she was really cool, too. I saw her again but my paranoid mother didn't let me talk to her. I saw her a third time, and I asked her if she remembered me, she said yes, but I dont remember if I could tell whether she was lying or not. We talked a little and I gave her my phone number. Is that unethical or creepy, considering I'm a customer and I only saw her twice or three times?

 

[The Penguin]

I think your fine. But I would just be her friend and don't rush into a dating relationship. Build on that lateer. Many people including myself made mistakes rushing into dating relationships too fast.

 

[Aspergirl4hire]

It's nice that you gave her your phone number, which gives her some choice.

 

[wyverary]

I agree with Aspergirl4hire - giving her your phone number is an excellent way to show your interest. It takes the pressure off of her—now it is her decision. If she calls you, great! If not, no harm no foul on either end, and you both know where you stand.

 

[AsheSkyler]

Pretty common social practice. Chat a few times, pass out a phone number, then eagerly await the ringing of the phone! You could always try the direct approach, I had a boy ask me out directly when I was a cashier.

 

[Suzanne]

The fact that she remembers you, is a great sign, and how else can you get to know each other if you did not pass on your details?

I know how you feel, though, for I often feel that I am floundering, when it comes to saying or doing the right thing.

Friendship is the thing to cultivate and being honest with each other, which is scary, but it would not be kind to either of you, if you did not tell her about being an aspie and if she is that interested, she will find out more, is she does not already know.

lol I used to see shop workers like film stars, a bit awe inspired, I was......