Could use some advice.

[Wolfsage]

So I've been told that having someone around to support you through your older years is a good idea. Through marriage for context. Of course I've heard the same thing about having kids. Which I do not plan to have. I don't agree with this idea. Given my experience s have said otherwise. And the fact I'm more comfortable alone. But I also see the benefits to it. And there are days where I think I would like to have it. Just not here not in this life. I would love them to the day I died. But it's that same love that tells me I shouldn't for "reasons". Good reasons I can't deny.

 

[Fino]

I also plan to be alone!

 

[Streetwise]

So I've been told that having someone around to support you threw your older years is a good idea. Threw marriage for context. Of course I've heard the same thing about having kids. Which I do not plan to have. I don't agree with this idea. Given my experience s have said otherwise. And the fact I'm more comfortable alone. But I also see the benefits to it. And there are days where I think I would like to have it. Just not here not in this life. I would love them to the day I died. But it's that same love that tells me I shouldn't for "reasons". Good reasons I can't deny.

You can employ a carer ,it's not just nursing, shopping cleaning or a keyworker not a cleaner or nurse but supports I've always just wanted a mother again, sexual relationships just seem to be too complex,being part of what is described a family :mother,father,siblings,aunts,uncles, grandparents,cousins,is just as complex,if you're in good health an animal is more comforting .

 

[paloftoon]

Trying to build a good quality, platonic network where sex is not in the equation is a good thing to aim for. That way, you basically live your own life for the most part, you may need to sacrifice a bit for your friend(s), but the sacrifice is worth it as long as they try to reciprocate enough and you guys help each other out when you can. If a friendship worked at first and it didn't work later on, that could happen too. Build new friendships if you must as time goes on.

 

[Aspychata]

Let's put this in perspective. How many of us can find somebody we can be with? Most of us can't. When we find that special one- sometimes they aren't ready for us. In the end- there is nothing we can do. If it feels right on every level then there is your answer.☺

If you feel trust, if you feel acceptance, if you feel wonder and happiness, if you feel that they would do anything for you? Then u have your answer. But if u aren't ready.......

 

[Aspychata]

a