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Boobies?

By the way...I understand why someone would ask, so I'm not going to judge anyone. Chair that's fine with my that you did and I know you dont care about my opinion but im just saying i wouldnt judge you just because of that.
 
Michael H said:
And I hate to be a bore but talking about sex makes me feel ill :) I dunno I guess I'm immature like that.
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TBH, I think you're uncomfortable with your sexuality, even if you're open about it.
IMO you should watch gay porn for several hours a week until your comfortable with it, even if you don't have sexual urges, and don't afterwards, you'll still be more comfortable.
I know that sounds really stupid but I think it'd work.
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"To be honest I find that a really perverted and strange thing to do. I won't really be friends with anyone if they ask me to show any of my...parts (for lack of a better word)."

Ditto that. I would feel disrespected.
 
Nope, never asked to see someones boobies.   :rofl:

In fairness though, i've never had the chance lol I haven't did a webcam chat with a girl before. Not that i'd ask if I had.




  :D
 
Most of the guys who asked me to do so asked me over MSN if I would.
Then I blocked them :D.
/Does not go on webcam to random guys I've only known for like a week/.
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:wtf2: :rofl: and, well, PLEASE, don't forget Uncyclopedia too!

Here:

http://uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/Porn
 
Emor said:
TBH, I think you're uncomfortable with your sexuality, even if you're open about it.
IMO you should watch gay porn for several hours a week until your comfortable with it, even if you don't have sexual urges, and don't afterwards, you'll still be more comfortable.
I know that sounds really stupid but I think it'd work.
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In my limited experience, plenty of straight Aspies are very uncomfortable about their sexuality.

Having sexual urges is one thing. Being able to relate these to actual people and imagine that level of physical and emotional closeness is another.

Watching lots of gay porn would probably make things worse. I can't imagine that it would help Michael H any more than straight porn helped me.

Trying to actually connect with people without worrying about the sexual aspect of it would be more helpful IMO.
 
142857 said:
In my limited experience, plenty of straight Aspies are very uncomfortable about their sexuality.

Having sexual urges is one thing. Being able to relate these to actual people and imagine that level of physical and emotional closeness is another.

Watching lots of gay porn would probably make things worse. I can't imagine that it would help Michael H any more than straight porn helped me.

Trying to actually connect with people without worrying about the sexual aspect of it would be more helpful IMO.
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Okay. I don't know really. I just have a friend who's now lesbian who did that so yeah. LOL. But yeah :p. That might be a better idea ^_^.
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I don't even think it's worth the risk :|.
While I can understand the pro's, I think they're outweighed by far by the possibility of the person being underage and you being made a sex offender. I actually watched a 20 minute or so documentary about people on the spectrum who accidentally became sex offenders.
If anyone wants the link I'll dig it up.
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Emor said:
Okay. I don't know really. I just have a friend who's now lesbian who did that so yeah. LOL. But yeah :p. That might be a better idea ^_^.
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Was your lesbian friend an aspie?

Nothing wrong with your suggestion. I guess I'm just talking about my own experience and one or two other aspies I have known.

When my youngest brother, who is almost certainly an aspie, got married he converted to Islam. He and his wife had no idea about sex and the Imam suggested they buy some pirated porn DVDs and watch them. I guess he was a pretty liberal Imam.
 
142857 said:
Was your lesbian friend an aspie?

Nothing wrong with your suggestion. I guess I'm just talking about my own experience and one or two other aspies I have known.

When my youngest brother, who is almost certainly an aspie, got married he converted to Islam. He and his wife had no idea about sex and the Imam suggested they buy some pirated porn DVDs and watch them. I guess he was a pretty liberal Imam.
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Nah, she's NT.
That is unusual o_O.
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You would hate it even more when you are more attractive, most girls on my msn back then would ask to take out my.... :lol:
 
Seems wrong to ask, if they'd want to it'd likely come from them since when you're horny you say whatever you want not really caring about much else.

So no, I've not asked. It's less hassle just going onto a porn site anyway. I love the lock on my door... :ph34r:
 
TBH, guys have actually offered to show me their things. And sometimes they just sent it assuming I'd want it... LOL...
I should like, stop talking about sex from an academic(srsly!) stand point with guys, it gives them the wrong idea o_O. LOL.
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Well even when I talk about animal's sexual reproductive systems some just think I'm reaaaally like, liberal or something.
I think sometimes when I'll briefly mention something about sex no matter how small guys always see it as flirting which is just annoying really.
It's not like it's not an interesting subject and it sucks I can't talk about it because people then think I want to have sex with them.
If I talk to people about murder, another subject I find interesting, they don't assume I want to go and murder with them. Well, most of the time anyway. LOL.
Lol, Bruce, is that possibly your first post here which doesn't have an exclamation or question mark/point? Rofl xD.
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Emor said:
I think sometimes when I'll briefly mention something about sex no matter how small guys always see it as flirting which is just annoying really.
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Looks like you got a problem there. These guys you speak of sound very immature.  :p
 
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