I have learned over the years the problems that come with being generous with money or "the things it can buy." I never realized it before, but my generosity in the past made others uncomfortable. For example, I had some friends whose DVD player gave out, so I bought them a new one; not a cheap Walmart player, but a top of the line Toshiba. So, what good is a new DVD player without a decent TV set? Once again, I ran by Best Buy and picked up a 32" TV for them; this was before "affordable" flat-screen TV's came out.
Back then I couldn't understand why they were so bothered by my generosity. Rather than say "Thank you" and enjoy what I got them, they kept fussing about the fact I bought the stuff for them. They eventually became so bothered by it all that they left everything on my doorstep one afternoon; I've not seen or heard from them in over fifteen years.
Back then I couldn't understand why they were so bothered by my generosity. Rather than say "Thank you" and enjoy what I got them, they kept fussing about the fact I bought the stuff for them. They eventually became so bothered by it all that they left everything on my doorstep one afternoon; I've not seen or heard from them in over fifteen years.