Sander
Master Liar
This can be quite difficult, sometimes I find it even hard to talk to them, even if I don't have a crush on them.
I've thought about this quite a long time, asking normal questions isn't a problem, it starts to get a problem when I just want to chat with them, even to start a friendship.
The weird: I've got more female friends than male. But those friends knew me from the time I still wore diapers, that's about 14 years! And yes, I'm totally comfortable with them.
I'm just so frightened that I will fail talking to a girl or anything else than asking questions.
Even with Evy, I've grown quite comfortable with her, I'd tell her things others might never know, but holding hands, initiating a hug, or things like a kiss are just not possible, I get so nervous that in the end I won't do it.
Receiving a hug, kiss, whatever else, no problem. As long as I don't have to initiate it.
I'm sick and tired of it! Any tips?!
Edit: This only happens with girls around my age.
I've thought about this quite a long time, asking normal questions isn't a problem, it starts to get a problem when I just want to chat with them, even to start a friendship.
The weird: I've got more female friends than male. But those friends knew me from the time I still wore diapers, that's about 14 years! And yes, I'm totally comfortable with them.
I'm just so frightened that I will fail talking to a girl or anything else than asking questions.
Even with Evy, I've grown quite comfortable with her, I'd tell her things others might never know, but holding hands, initiating a hug, or things like a kiss are just not possible, I get so nervous that in the end I won't do it.
Receiving a hug, kiss, whatever else, no problem. As long as I don't have to initiate it.
I'm sick and tired of it! Any tips?!
Edit: This only happens with girls around my age.
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